Kelso Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 I'll try to keep this short... There is a girl who goes to the same college as I do. We were getting great along last semester and I decided to ask her out. However, I did it the last week of school, just so that it wouldn't be awkward meeting her in the hallways. Well, I asked if she wanted to go for a cup of coffee someday. She said that she would like to think about it - and gave me a phone call later in the week where she refused my offer. The reason was "I'm seeing another guy right now and I find it inappropriate to see two guys at a time". Well, sometimes life sucks, but at least it shows that she has a good personality. I met her for the first time since I asked her about 2 weeks ago. We had a nice talk about what we've been doing during the summer. I met her again a week ago while partying. We were telling jokes all night and chatting for the whole night. She then started to throw peanuts at me (supposed to be a prank). Anyway, I decided not to dwell for too long at her table, so I just walked around talked to people (mostly girls) - just trying to keep my cool. Our eyes crossed few times during that night after I left the table ... but nothing happened. What do you think she's thinking. Denied a guy when I asked her out. Still acts overly friendly, throws peanuts at me for 2 hours. I must admit, that I haven't thought about this girl for the whole summer ... but meeting her again has evoked some feelings I thought were gone... And yes ... I know the guy she was dating in the spring and I know that they are not seeing each other any more.
Mako482 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Sounds kind of flirty but I wouldn't read too much from it. Saying that, if her reason for denying you before was that guy and he is no longer around......what are you waiting for?
jerbear Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Ask her out the next time you meet her. If she gives you the not date two guys line or take your number and call you to cancel. Just leave her alone, be friends if you can but give up on the romantic side.
JoeNewbie Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 She already knows you are interested - I think you should carefully read her signals as if she becomes interested, it'll be fairly obvious. Also, she should be the one telling you that she is no longer seeing the other guy - not a third party.
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