mortensorchid Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Here is something that my friend Mark has been harassing me about for a long time. I wanted others' opinions on it. Usually I dress pretty casual - jeans and a T shirt. Unless it is a party or something, I usually don't wear make up in the summers and rarely if ever wear a dress / skirt. Why? Not sure. I guess I opt for comfort at most times. Mark has been telling me that if I want to attract men more, I have to show cleavage. Now, I KNOW how guys are and they will rarely if ever argue with this. But, I don't want to look slutty either. I am not an overtly bubbly person because I think it makes you look stupid. I do have a mind too. What is the happy medium? Does anyone have a visual example to give me? I'm confused, in case I want to make a change to my wardrobe.
Mako482 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Here is something that my friend Mark has been harassing me about for a long time. I wanted others' opinions on it. Usually I dress pretty casual - jeans and a T shirt. Unless it is a party or something, I usually don't wear make up in the summers and rarely if ever wear a dress / skirt. Why? Not sure. I guess I opt for comfort at most times. Mark has been telling me that if I want to attract men more, I have to show cleavage. Now, I KNOW how guys are and they will rarely if ever argue with this. But, I don't want to look slutty either. I am not an overtly bubbly person because I think it makes you look stupid. I do have a mind too. What is the happy medium? Does anyone have a visual example to give me? I'm confused, in case I want to make a change to my wardrobe. I say that shallow as all hell. If that is not you then don't do it. I for one appreciate a woman who does not feel she needs to show all that to attract me, it is almost like a weapon to some. Be yourself, would you want a guy who only came over to you because of your cleavage anyway?
yongyong Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 You don't have to show off your skin to be sexy. I find a woman in a shirt and dress pants sexy. I think he is telling you because you don't look feminine. Men want their woman take care of themselves. wear at least some basic makeup, no t-shirts everyday. men love skirts cuz it will make you look very feminine. Get some different type of heels depending on the occasions (woman with dirty tennis shoes is a big turn off) don't worry about cleavage idea. do you want men look at you as sexual object other than a gorgeous woman? I don't know your age but I really like banana republic clothes cuz it looks little bit formal but still fashionable.
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Wear a sun dress. that is not overly sexy, and you would get noticed much more than wearing jeans. Jeans are really not that attractive on a woman.
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