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Hello all,

I met a girl a couple weeks ago while I was out with my friends, she seemed really nice so we exchanged numbers. Then went out about 3 days later. Then she drops the bomb on me that she has a long distance relationship, but it is over. So then last night I was off from work and so was she so I asked her out. She told me she had to go have dinner with her boyfriends mom who is in town. I asked her why if they were broken up she would go out with his mom, but I guess they aren't "technically" broken up. So she tells me she has been with him a while and doesn't think she can break up with him. So I tell her goodbye then and good luck. Now she is sending me messages that she really likes me, but can't end it yet, but it might end soon. Of course I said I don't want to be in the middle of it.

 

I just wanted to see if it was the right thing to do, to me it seems obvious she cheated on her boyfriend and lied to me about her relationship, so doesn't seem like a good girl to keep. Am I wrong or missing something?

Thanks

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seems like some anoying mind game I mean is she or isn't she in a relationship. If you like the girl you could just go out with her

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Sounds like a weird indecisive drama game that you are better off not being a part of.

Seems fishy to me.

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. So she tells me she has been with him a while and doesn't think she can break up with him. So I tell her goodbye then and good luck. Now she is sending me messages that she really likes me, but can't end it yet, but it might end soon. Of course I said I don't want to be in the middle of it.

you did a good job saying this

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, to me it seems obvious she cheated on her boyfriend and lied to me about her relationship, so doesn't seem like a good girl to keep. Am I wrong or missing something?

Thanks

 

to me, she sounds like trouble

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1.) She has a long distance relationship, but it is over.

2.) She tells me she has been with him a while and doesn't think she can break up with him.

3.) She is sending me messages that she really likes me

4.) She can't end it yet, but it might end soon.

 

She's still involved with him = trouble for you.

 

Do you really want to place yourself in the middle of this?

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