Question for the ladies

[joboee123]

This last spring, I began talking to this girl. We seemed to get along real well and yadda yadda, but a problem was that we didn't get to hang out too often because of our different college work and other things surrounding that. She seemed interested in me for a while, but then as summer break approached, she seemed to become more distant. Eventually, summer arrived and we both didn't see or talk to each other in a while (she went back to her hometown)

 

Now the new school year is about to start, I decide to write her a message on Facebook (online social network) to see how she is doing. That same night, she begins to text me and stuff, seeing how I am doing, and wanting to hang out that night. So I did hang out at her place and everything went well.

 

That next night, she went out to see some of her friends at their new homes, and she calls me wanting to stop by just because she is in the area. Now I usually wouldn't think much of it because she is just trying to see people she hasn't seen in a while, but she wanted to stop for a little while just because she was in the area, even though we hung out the night before?

 

So I ask you ladies, how should I take this? Do you think she is wanting a relationship, or just being really friendly? I am just curious of opinions on how I should approach this. Thanks

[joboee123]

no one at all has any thoughts or opinions on this?

[Toasted]

A little too soon to tell, i think. Looks to me like she's interested. If not she wouldn't have made the effort to call. Maybe she's just feeling you out and used the "im in the area" as an excuse so she wouldn't feel dumb if you didnt want to see her again. I don't think stopping by to see you says 'realtionship', but 'interested' is a good possiblity. Just my humble opionion though. If you are interested in her, then i'd suggest you make the next move and ask to see her. Otherwise she might feel she's doing all the pursuing and drop it. If she is interested, she will be there.

[hotcrossbuns]

Agree with the above. This isn't quite as complicated as you're making it out to be. If you're interested, ask her out on a date and make your intentions clear. That's it.

[mortensorchid]

Give it time. She'll come around or she won't. Sounds like it's just gotten started if you've only known / seen her again for a few weeks.

[Prodigal Princess]

You need to be careful here... If you want to be more than her friend, stay out of the Friend Zone. Don't do too much more of this platonic "hanging out" stuff, and start taking the lead to turn this into something romatical.