London Girl Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 We have been dating for nearly 3 months. He tells me he loves me and that I am the most important thing in this life. He also wants us to try to have babies which I agreed. He has been unemployed for 6 months although he is looking for work. I have been patient and supportive since we started dating. The problem is I am now having doubts as to whether I think we are compatible. He has been living with me the for last 2 weeks due to a course he has to attend. Things have been fine until this week. He drinks alot and the other day I caught him having a smoke on a joint which I was not too pleased about. Yesterday he spent the whole day out with his brother then with his friends at a gig which I had no problem with. As the gig finishes at 2am, and no trains were running, I offered to pick him up at a train station when he is done to which he accepted. He said he will call me during the night to let me know when he is done. He called at 8pm, then 10pm to say he will call me again to let me know when he is done. At around 3.30am I called him and he sounded drunk and saying wierd things then his battery on his mobile died and I have not heard from him since. I am now worried as to where he could be as he did not come home and now it is late afternoon. I'm in a dilemma as to whether finish it or am I being unreasonable? I do like this guy but I'm not sure if he is responsible enough for me and he is really stubborn. Help
Lishy Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 So you have been dating for 3 months and are thinking of having a baby with a man who does not work, drinks too much and smokes drugs? On top of that he is stubborn and selfish and lets you down Read that back and realise what you are dating!
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