Jersey Shortie Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Okay so this is for the guys to share what they think they offer as men, to women. Please be as open and hoenst as you can here guys. That's the only way we learn stuff about you.
Pyro Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 -My guidance/opinions on matters that I learned from my experiences -Security: financially and physically -Backup: through the thick and thin of things -Kindness -Humor (which is very limited) -Respect -My heart and everything with that:)
carhill Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Where's Part One? shakes head, mumbles to self....
Vertex Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 I'm extremely shy and so I have a tricky time just getting out there and talking to multiple people in active social settings, but when I do relax around someone, I think it's easier to let it all out Anyways, in terms of what I can offer: -I'd consider myself an honest and empathetic person. I'm extremely forthcoming with people and I'm always trying to look at things from the perspectives of others. I'm fiercely loyal, as well, almost to a fault. -I'm 22, and so I am still fairly young. I can be a playful guy -I'm receiving two degrees from an Ivy League university, so I have good job skills/volatility/education in this regard. I'd consider myself a very intelligent person (trying not to be arrogant by saying this), but I really do feel that I have a decent understanding of many things. If I don't, I try to learn from my errors. I'm persistent in just about everything I begin and I get things done. People can count on me, and I make it a point to be a man of my word. -Tolerant, open, and patient. I'm also kind to people and I enjoy helping out. -I'm decently funny (or at least, I think I'm funny ). I hope I'm funny? I know I have a sense of humor, at least. That's gotta count for something. -I'm an amateur chef (by that I mean I can cook a pot of ramen without burning myself. I am trying to learn a more expansive menu, I assure you) -Sexually "attentive," I guess you could say. Never had anything but praise in this department, so I must be doing something right. -I work out regularly. Not only to keep in shape, but it makes me feel great. It's become part of who I am, and so I think it's a valuable habit to have. -I've put myself through college entirely on my own financial support (and my school is NOT cheap for me!). This includes expenses, tuition, entertainment, etc. So, I'd say I'm extremely, extremely good with money management. I've worked the entire time I've been a full-time student. Very used to hard work. -I like going out and having fun and trying new things. My taste in food is broad and exotic, and I'm always willing to do anything at least once. -I like romantic things. There's never any reason why two people in love should not make each other feel special. -My love is infinite -I've dealt with quite a few obstacles that many my age have not yet experienced, and I think it's helped me mature as a human being. -I have quite a few interests/hobbies? Not sure if this counts at all. But I do have passions, and I think passions are important! Anyways, I know I have things to offer, but I am still learning. I hope to find someone special someday that I'm truly compatible with
flc Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 - I am healthy and fit and reasonably good looking - I am an executive in a growing business and I make a good living - I have a good sense of humor - I love women in general but only one at a time - I enjoy sex and the best part is making my partner happy - I like to travel - I enjoy good food and music
Author Jersey Shortie Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 Vertex, if you wear those black thick geek chic glasses , I 'm so digging you right now. Thanks for the responses guys, keep them coming please. It's restoring my faith here after some of the posts of late.
refurb Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 - a back that could use a good massage - a house to clean - clothes that need to be washed - strong sexual urges that she can focus on satisfying - a healthy appetite for her cooking RF
Author Jersey Shortie Posted August 31, 2008 Author Posted August 31, 2008 Too much to list Easy out. You don't have to give us everything but I am curious to what you think you offer. - a back that could use a good massage - a house to clean - clothes that need to be washed - strong sexual urges that she can focus on satisfying - a healthy appetite for her cooking You don't offer much. I'm so sorry. Good luck with that.
CaliGuy Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Easy out. You don't have to give us everything but I am curious to what you think you offer. Hmmm.. let's see. I'm intelligent. I'm goal driven. I'm fun! I'm spontaenous. I can get dirty and clean up well. I'm mechanically inclined (that's a plus, trust me) I'm a great conversationalist and excellent communicator. I'm stable and not in debt with good credit, lol I have a great career and make a nice living. I'm supportive of individual goals. I have no luggage/baggage and no ex-wives I'm attractive I'm healthy. I'm in GREAT shape. I'm energetic. I'm well balanced. I'm monogamous. I think I'd be the world's best husband and father, to my eventual wife. I know when to give space and am not smothering. I have my own life and feel I want to share with someone else, not have them BE my life. I'm confident, but not cocky There are many more but that's a good sampling.
fral945 Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Ok, here are the ones that I think women would consider most important: - Intelligence - Accountability - I can wash my own clothes, cook my own food, do my own dishes, pay my own bills, and take care of myself without a woman (but I want a woman) - Stability & security (I have a good job, a car, no debt, no prison record, etc.) - I like kids and I'm good with them - Maturity - I know that a relationship is not one sided, it's constant give and take, and sometimes it won't be equal or fair - Perspective - I find I view the world a lot differently than most people I know. - Love - Easy going nature - I am not easily worked up about things - Adaptable - I adjust well to a variety of situations - No luggage or baggage (no crazy ex-girfriends, kids, debt, etc.) - A sharp wit Ones I think are less important but still possibly factors: - I'm cute (not my words ) - I'm physically fit and value my health - I like to please my partner sexually
Author Jersey Shortie Posted August 31, 2008 Author Posted August 31, 2008 Everyone has baggage. It's called "life experience".
fral945 Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Everyone has baggage. It's called "life experience". Then I don't have much life experience.
The Collector Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 I have a hot ass and a donkey. The donkey is not so hot to be fair.
Capricciosa Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 You have a donkey? I'm now officially your fan,Tomcat...
Trialbyfire Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 I am the prize so what is she offering me? If you're over 30, this isn't possible.
Vertex Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Jersey: I actually do own such a pair, haha! I switch between glasses and contacts. I have like three pairs of glasses.
JohnnyBlaze Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 I've been trying to figure out how to answer this question, and I can't. Not because I can't identify any traits about myself, but because 'offer' implies that I know what you (as a woman in general) wants, and it seems that no two women want exactly the same thing. Example: If I say I'm a sweet guy, Good Girl A may get all doe-eyed about it while bad Girl B goes cold fish because of it. Now take a second trait (well, more of a 'thing') - I ride motorcycle, and some of the people I ride with don't rank too highly on the 'good/bad' scale (they're good guys to me, but some have had colourful pasts). Taken on its own, Girl A gets scared by the big bad biker while Girl B gets instantly wet at the thought of hanging out with bikers. Now combine the two. Girl A hates trait 2 and Girl B hates trait 1, which leaves me looking for Girl C. Guys are like ogres and onions; we have...LAYERS! Some of us may look like donkeys, and most...well, all of us act like one more often than not, but we're really onions. There are a handful of things you're going to know or figure out about us pretty quickly. But other things take time to discover. If you don't find a 'top-level' trait you like (or worse, you find a top-level trait that you don't like), no matter how much you may like deeper qualities (like if we really are good with kids for more than ten minutes at a time), you're not going to stay with us long enough to discover them. Hence, onions. Probably a little deeper than what you were looking for, but...too bad!
Vertex Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Just explain the relevant layers then Couldn't hurt.
JohnnyBlaze Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 And give away all the surprises? Where would the fun be in that?
soserious1 Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 - a back that could use a good massage - a house to clean - clothes that need to be washed - strong sexual urges that she can focus on satisfying - a healthy appetite for her cooking RF and I bet you've got a bill or two lying around that you wouldn't mind her paying? Been there,done that, have the lawyer and alimony bills already, so thanks but no thanks
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