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My gf and I broke up...but did we really break up?


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My gf moved about a week and a half ago and since then her life has been hectic. Full time school, full time job, on top of that she's sick. And I called her up today and asked her why she's been avoiding me lately and she says she doesn't have time. Then I asked her if she doesn't wanna be with me anymore she said she wants to be friends.

 

She told me that she's sick of boys. She told me her life is crazy cuz she's insanely busy and she doesn't have time for anything anymore. She says she loves me like she used to before (odd) and she misses making love to me and all that but doesn't have time right now. She also says she likes the things the way they are right now but I saw her on Thursday and we kissed and said baby i love you and all that. IDK.

 

What do you guys think about this? Is this really a break up? I think we'll be getting back together in a few weeks but what'd you guys think?

 

Thanks.

 

BTW we only live hr half away from each other.

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I don't know exactly what to think, but I recommend you drop off the face of the earth as far as she's concerned. Leave her alone. Let her adjust to all the changes and craziness.

 

If she misses you, she'll realize it as soon as things calm down, and she'll let you know.

 

Busy yourself with other things for the time being.

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Were you guys really attached when living together?

 

Even girls gets sick of guys because they call everyday things like that.

 

So I can imagine she didn't have any space for her?

 

just leave her alone for couple weeks. tell her 'I will give you plenty of space'

 

If you ask 'so you want to be with me or no?', you will mess up everything.

 

just keep minimal contact and see her reaction.

 

I bet she will compain later how you could not contact her for a week lol

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