Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Oh but no you are SO mistaken there are so many very young women who like old Sean Connery still, look here: Sexy! :laugh: Sorry, Tomcat, I am too afraid to click on that link!
Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Tomcat, can you read? It says men in their 20's. That is 20 -29.. As you can see women want older men, and men want younger women. Obviously. Hm, you sure about that?
Shygirl15 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Oh but no you are SO mistaken there are so many very young women who like old Sean Connery still, look here: Sexy! :laugh: Yeah, what is she talking about?? I can take Sean Connery any day baby!
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Yes Alma, I am positive, lol. Are there some exceptions? Sure. Did the men proposing to you buy you a ring? And you said no? Lets say a man never gets laid and finds an old broad to give it too him. His mind is clouded by sex. That does not mean old ladies are his preference by far.
Tomcat33 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Tomcat, can you read? It says men in their 20's. That is 20 -29.. As you can see women want older men, and men want younger women. Obviously. Yeah I can read and a 20 yr old man IS a man in his 20's last time I checked. PLUS you site a BLOG as fact? Anyone can post whatever they feel like on a blog because blogging is personal opinion. I found a blog too GagaVon.com that says that any man with the name "Von" in it should have his mouth stuffed with his own balls because women of all ages don't want to hear what they have to say. So it must be true if it says so in someone's blog. Blogs are fact!
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Well I do not have the time to collect data from societies around the world on my own. And actually in many countries 30 yr old men do marry 16 yr old women. 20 year olds sleep with 15 yr old girls all the time as well. It is clearly obvious that men prefer younger women, and women prefer older men. Are their exceptions? Yes. Some of the population is gay. Some of the population are pedophiles. And some of the population has younger men who want to marry older women. The vast majority(as has been proven in our society, and every society that ever existed) have older men paired with younger women. It is mutually beneficial.
Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Yes Alma, I am positive, lol. Sure. Did the men proposing to you buy you a ring? And you said no? Yes, they did, actually. I still said no.
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 How did that go down? All these younger men are buying you rings out of nowhere before you even talked about marriage? Then you just tell them no thanks? lol yeah right.
Tomcat33 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 The bottom line is people in general WANT and PREFER many things, but what they end up with is another story. People WANT or PREFER to be rich and retired by the time they are 40 but they end up working and content to get by and they are still 50. People WANT or PREFER a big house on the beach a maid and a sports car, but they end up with a mid sized house, debt and having to the clean it themselves. Women WANT or PREFER a rich, successful, debonaire sophisticated yet sensitive cat that's going to sweep her off her feet and romance here until the end of time, but instead they end up with a regular joe that works hard, gets her enough flowers and kisses during the courting stage to make it seem like he is a romantic and caring enough guy and they travel when they can afford it. Men WANT or PREFER to permanently keep trading in his women for younger better models, but instead they marry a woman that seems close enough to what they like, they get bald and fat and sit at home wanking to porn because realistically that is as close as they will get to anything young getting naked in front of them. And then we all die, that's reality for you. We want a lot of things but what do we get? End of story.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 We don't live in the 1950s anymore. Women don't have to pick men who are finacially secure. And biologically speaking, men in their 20s have healthier sperm then men as they age as well. Actually, men have agrowin preasure to look attractive themselves now-adays with more moen subcuming to beauty rituals to appear more attractive to women. Younger women like men that aren't hairy. Younger men shave their chests to meet this standard. Much more hten in my father's time. Most men now-a-days aren't exactly looking to share their money anyway. If you want to be a pedo and marry a 15 year old go to some third world country where her father can trade her for a cow and be done with it. If you want a relationship where there is mutual respect, you have to give it to get it. But if you want to put down the opposite sex because of your bitter twisted views and your mommy not giving you enough love, then be happy in the fact that you will reap what you sow. I think Vonerik sees the lines and cracks in his thinking but will insist into his death bed that the world is like a poorly done 1950s sitcom.
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 No, it is not just a mere preference it is proven in every society in the world. In 93% of USA marriages the woman is the man's age, younger, or a couple years older. Only in 7% of marriages is the woman 4 yr older or more. Sorry Jersy, younger men are not attracted to older women, and older women do not want to marry a 25 yr old lol.
Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 How did that go down? All these younger men are buying you rings out of nowhere before you even talked about marriage? Then you just tell them no thanks? lol yeah right. Two proposals do NOT make "all these younger men" out of nowhere. Where did I say that? I said that I dated them, and two of them proposed. One was nine-years younger, the other eleven years younger. And no, it wasn't as simple as "no thanks." They got hurt.
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 So they went to buy you a ring before ever discussing marriage with you? How old were they?
Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 No, it is not just a mere preference it is proven in every society in the world. In 93% of USA marriages the woman is the man's age, younger, or a couple years older. Only in 7% of marriages is the woman 4 yr older or more. Sorry Jersy, younger men are not attracted to older women, and older women do not want to marry a 25 yr old lol. Did you ever research why the age disparity exists? Oh wait -- you just decided it was because men desire younger women, even though younger women were needed because of the death rate before legal abortion and birth control; that most women PREFER an older partner; that it's a bit of a taboo to this day for an older woman to be with an older man. NOPE. All the evidence just points to men period want very young women period. Yep.
Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 So they went to buy you a ring before ever discussing marriage with you? How old were they? Why are you so interested in my love life? No, I did not discuss marriage with them. Oh, in my post, I left out the THIRD guy who proposed to me. Another younger guy -- I accepted. It was a white gold claddaugh ring with a topaz. Ok?
Tomcat33 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 I think Vonerik sees the lines and cracks in his thinking but will insist into his death bed that the world is like a poorly done 1950s sitcom. I agree he's been to Brazil or Thailand too many times, where 12 yr old girls make foreigners feel sexually special because it is their only ticket out of their hell-holeish existence. And for every single one of these poor girls there is a first world PERV to fully take advantage of them. They don't get any attention here in the first world so they resort to the desperate needs of these girls abroad. The vast majority of the industrialised and progressive world does not operate under this concept of ignorance and lack of educational sophisication, it's a concept that is bred amongst the lowest rungs of societies.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 No, it is not just a mere preference it is proven in every society in the world. In 93% of USA marriages the woman is the man's age, younger, or a couple years older. Only in 7% of marriages is the woman 4 yr older or more. Sorry Jersy, younger men are not attracted to older women, and older women do not want to marry a 25 yr old lol I've rarely seen you have a real percentage that actually came from a real study. Your precentages are what you think, not the truth. And you are kidding yourself if you think women of all ages aren't dreaming about Micheal Phelps instead of Sean Connery. I don't have issues with older men marrying younger women. But I don't have issues with older women marrying younger men. That's the difference. I don't want to degrade men based on age and you obviously want to degrade every woman based on age. Your inclusion that women are worthless and that the only type of relationship that is worth merit and success are ones that include older men/younger 20 something women is crap. Half of all marriages end in divorce anyway. Age doesn't make one happier in a marriage. Since all men want 20 year old women, by your comments, even if 20 year old women marry older men we are apparently still kicked to the curb, again by your comments. Because no one stays 20 forever. So thank you for trying to tell women what crap and how undeserving they are of love and respect. When your wife hits 30, you can kick her out the door. And I am sure you will take a certian glee in treating the woman that though loved her out the door. And when your own mother was no longer 20, I guess you can take a certain pride that your father kicked her out the door and no longer deemed her of value to him. You want to treat women like they are worthless. I'm younger then you and I hope never to end up with a man lf your character and lack of respect towards women.
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Very young women? Are you twisting my words again? Ok ladies, if I am wrong.. Find a psychological study that says the majority of men prefer older women for marriage that provides the reasoning.. And find a study that says older women prefer to marry younger men, lol.. Find a census report of any nation that illustrates more marriages between older women and younger men. I am tired of the B.S. "Oh i have a friend that married a younger guy" "A younger guy proposed to me before" lol Find something significant, and post it.
jerbear Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 I would settle with the right 30 something woman.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 I agree he's been to Brazil or Thailand too many times, where 12 yr old girls make foreigners feel sexually special because it is their only ticket out of their hell-holeish existence. And for every single one of these poor girls there is a first world PERV to fully take advantage of them. They don't get any attention here in the first world so they resort to the desperate needs of these girls abroad. The vast majority of the industrialised and progressive world does not operate under this concept of ignorance and lack of educational sophisication, it's a concept that is bred amongst the lowest rungs of societies. You formulated what I was thinking about less progressive socieites having that type of mentality but not progressive ones. And bringing up the state of the little girls and women made to sell sex is a good point. What kind of men do we have in this world that use little girls and women. I don't think we can call those men, men at all.
Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Very young women? Are you twisting my words again? Ok ladies, if I am wrong.. Find a psychological study that says the majority of men prefer older women for marriage that provides the reasoning.. And find a study that says older women prefer to marry younger men, lol.. Psychological studies prove that men prefer women who respect them and treat them with kindness. Look it up.
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 http://www.azstarnet.com/sn/news/239542.php But, according to new Stanford University research, the "success" part may not have much to do with it, either. The older a man is when he marries after 40, the greater the likelihood that his bride will be significantly younger — whether that man is wealthy and educated or not. In about one-third of American marriages, husbands are at least four years older than their wives, according to 2006 Census data. Wives are four years or more older than their husbands in just 7 percent of unions. Men in their 40s tend to marry women who average seven years younger, and men in their 50s are marrying brides who average 11 years younger, according to England's research. And men in the 60s? They tend to marry women 13 years younger.
Alma Mobley Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 I listed several reasons why that might be. That study does not account for a woman's preference! And it is way of out line for you to extrapolate to the general population and make up theories of your own. There are a lot of confounding variables within that study. It certainly did NOT say men will always prefer younger women. Or are you not used to reading studies?
vonerik012 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Obviously men prefer younger women, lol.. Some times they settle for older.
Balthazar Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Wow, as a mid-20s woman, I find your attitude about women in general a complete turn off, disheartening and cruel. And I really do feel for the woman, younger or whoever, that ends up married to you. As it's obvious what you find important. And when that woman reaches her 40s, how much less of a person you will think of her for it. Even though she spent her life loving yo and taking care of you. I guess you can feel somewhat good in the fact that even your own mother was thought of as less of a woman by your father because she dared to get older. The general disrespect for women makes me feel less close to men, not closer. And certainly not hopeful that men really care about women at all. I thought this thread was all about jest. I guess you are OK with joking around when you are one doing it at the other's expense, eh? If you find my jokes distasteful, well, to each his own. If you cannot take a joke, you shouldn't be commenting on the thread. Just disregard it, and go back to man-bashing Jersey....
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