Touche Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 I agree. My H was 39 when we met and he settled for me.
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 In generalities, men seem to have unreasonable expectations. If you look at men over thirty, they have wrinkles and most of them have either beer guts or that little ring around their stomachs.
Kamille Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Good threadTBF. you speak the truth for all. Don't forget to throw in a few "biological" arguments.
Tomcat33 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 This is very true, men over 30 also don't walk, talk, or smell as good as their younger counterparts or married ones therefore they have less chances of being a good father and successful in their careers. Single men over thirty make terrible doctors lawyers and waste managment professionals as well. In fact they are just bad at everything they do. But men who married and are over 30 are the complete opposite they smell great, say all the right things, and excel in their careers. Oh and they live eternal lives and if they play the lottery they win becaue everything falls into place for a man that marries as opposed to some loser over 30 who chooses to stay single. Did you know that? This is a fact, because I say so.
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 Well, exactly. They can't give a woman enough satisfaction, since they're unable to produce the quantity or quality of sperm, at the same rate as the twenty something men! If you're a woman who wants a family, do you really want a man who's boys do the dog paddle, instead of hopping to and getting the job done? Also, who wants a man who wants to be peter pan for the rest of his life, needing women who mother them, with the Wendy dilemma? If I wanted a boy, at least I could rely on the twenty something guys to give me sexual satisfaction and a high fertility rate. Some of the men over thirty are losing their hair! OMG, heaven forbid!
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 Yes, speaking of education for men, you'll find more younger men in their twenties, with more education, thus higher earning potential for a greater amount of time!
melodymatters Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Word ! I can vouch for the fact that younger men : smell better, have way nicer hair, tighter bodies, and just want to please you. They don't have all the "issues" that those gross over 30 guys do !
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 Well sure, the over thirty something crowd of men need to worry desperately about getting older and older, especially when they date younger women! Can you imagine a younger woman wanting an older man who's starting to look like their father? Younger women would be gone in a flash since they have so many options! Older women can get younger men so they're also not interested! I mean what thirty something guy can compete with the sexual stamina of a twenty-something guy?
vonerik012 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 LOL TBF, On another thread I read you were seeking men up to 45 years old. Obviously this thread is just created because you are bitter that men have more of an advantage when it comes to age. Women have advantages as well. Age is not one of them. It is the women who generally like older men because they make more money, tend to be more mature, and offer more security than a 25 yr old, lol. Their biological clock is good for an extra 15 years at least as well..
melodymatters Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 I mean what thirty something guy can compete with the sexual stamina of a twenty-something guy? Um...not many that I'm aware of. My 24 yr old is hard pretty much 24/7 and just wants to please me. Most of those pudgy, balding, 30 something, divorced guys with 2 kids and an ex wife just DON'T have the energy. Sorry dudes.
vonerik012 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 melody, you mean that boy you been having sex with for less than 2 months? lol Yeah that will last...
FleshNBones Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Because I said so and I know what's right!I am 30, but for the sake of argument, what am I settling for? Obese? Psychotic? Obese and psychotic?
melodymatters Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 melody, you mean that boy you been having sex with for less than 2 months? lol Yeah that will last... I think you must be referring to my fiance Michael, and yeah, you're right, he'll probably slow down when he hits the upper 20's ! What, are you upset that someone started a "mirror" thread of their own with the genders reversed. ? I think you had that, and a lot more, coming.
vonerik012 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Actually men over 30 have their pick.. We have a home, nice cars, money to travel, we can sleep with older women for easy sex, date younger pretty ones, date foreign ones, or ones our own age.. . The older ones would marry us in a heart beat, along with many foreign ones, or girls our own age. Some of the younger ones can be more difficult, but it is pretty easy to find a woman 27-30 who wants to be married.
vonerik012 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-20070622-000002.xml The midlife crisis is a myth—sort of Many believe that men go through a midlife crisis when they are in middle age. Not quite. Many middle-aged men do go through midlife crises, but it's not because they are middle-aged. It's because their wives are. From the evolutionary psychological perspective, a man's midlife crisis is precipitated by his wife's imminent menopause and end of her reproductive career, and thus his renewed need to attract younger women. Accordingly, a 50-year-old man married to a 25-year-old woman would not go through a midlife crisis, while a 25-year-old man married to a 50-year-old woman would, just like a more typical 50-year-old man married to a 50-year-old woman. It's not his midlife that matters; it's hers. When he buys a shiny-red sports car, he's not trying to regain his youth; he's trying to attract young women to replace his menopausal wife by trumpeting his flash and cash.
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 Um...not many that I'm aware of. My 24 yr old is hard pretty much 24/7 and just wants to please me. Most of those pudgy, balding, 30 something, divorced guys with 2 kids and an ex wife just DON'T have the energy. Sorry dudes. I can easily see why you chose a 24 year old, considering what a vital, attractive, intelligent and financially stable woman you are. Women with options have their pick of men, of all ages. Why settle for the wrinkly old, balding, fat, thirty-something+ man who shoots blanks, if he can shoot at all?
vonerik012 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 It might work for them. Some young guys are into that mommy thing, and some older women want to mother a boy. What will you say when he wants a child? Or after a few weeks of dating he has given up reproducing for the rest of his life? How do you know this 24 yr old dude settling for a 40 yr old who cant wait to marry her is not fat? lol
coffeemaker Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Ha. What a great thread. I'm soon to be 28, graduate degree educated, launched my own business, gasp, single, and will never settle! I want to be peter pan for the rest of my life. I mean, seriously, NEVER NEVER LAND is just so much cooler. It's like the movie Hook, if I imagine a great sumptuous dinner, or the woman of my dream for that matter, it'll just magically materialize right!? That is how life works right!? Please, please don't disabuse of me of that illusion! Being a toy'r'us kid is fun too. I don't ever want to grow up
Tomcat33 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-20070622-000002.xml The midlife crisis is a myth—sort of Many believe that men go through a midlife crisis when they are in middle age. Not quite. Many middle-aged men do go through midlife crises, but it's not because they are middle-aged. It's because their wives are. From the evolutionary psychological perspective, a man's midlife crisis is precipitated by his wife's imminent menopause and end of her reproductive career, and thus his renewed need to attract younger women. Accordingly, a 50-year-old man married to a 25-year-old woman would not go through a midlife crisis, while a 25-year-old man married to a 50-year-old woman would, just like a more typical 50-year-old man married to a 50-year-old woman. It's not his midlife that matters; it's hers. When he buys a shiny-red sports car, he's not trying to regain his youth; he's trying to attract young women to replace his menopausal wife by trumpeting his flash and cash. That may be true, but what is also fact is that most 25 yr old women aren't even REMOTELY interested in some 50 yr old man. He can want this all he wants but he ain't getting it. Where as 50 yr old women can still attract young men, for the simple fact that you say men "will screw anything that walks", well even so the reality is women can still get a younger man older dudes not so much, unless he has wealth and or looks.
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 That may be true, but what is also fact is that most 25 yr old women aren't even REMOTELY interested in some 50 yr old man. He can want this all he wants but he ain't getting it. Where as 50 yr old women can still attract young men, for the simple fact that you say men "will screw anything that walks", well even so the reality is women can still get a younger man older dudes not so much, unless he has wealth and or looks. A 50 year old man doesn't have looks, at least the right kind to attract a 25 year old girl. It's why they get sports cars so they can attract gold diggers.
Tomcat33 Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 A 50 year old man doesn't have looks, at least the right kind to attract a 25 year old girl. It's why they get sports cars so they can attract gold diggers. True enough. A 50 yr old would only want sex with a younger woman, because given the amount of younger women that would be attracted to a man twice her age, plus the compatibility factor EVEN if there was a some sort of attraction is rare enough, imagine how much harder it is when your pool is 1 out of 1000 women that would entertain being with you? So clearly sex is all he wants. EVEN still a woman wanting sex at 50 can get 100 times more sex from some younger dude than a man wanting sex at 50 from some younger woman. At the end of the day he can get all the sports cars he needs but women still hold the key when it comes to the "pleasure ride" I think here in lies all this animosity against women, I insists these specific male posters are just not getting laid.
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 True enough. A 50 yr old would only want sex with a younger woman, because given the amount of younger women that would be attracted to a man twice her age, plus the compatibility factor EVEN if there was a some sort of attraction is rare enough, imagine how much harder it is when your pool is 1 out of 1000 women that would entertain being with you? So clearly sex is all he wants. EVEN still a woman wanting sex at 50 can get 100 times more sex from some younger dude than a man wanting sex at 50 from some younger woman. At the end of the day he can get all the sports cars he needs but women still hold the key when it comes to the "pleasure ride" I think here in lies all this animosity against women, I insists these specific male posters are just not getting laid. Anyone can get sex if they pay for it. Also, a 50 year old man can't provide a 25 year old woman with the quality of sex a man in her peer group can offer. If not a gold digger, why would any girl want this man beyond wanting to do your Daddy? Incest is not best!
CaliGuy Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Because I said so and I know what's right! Ok fine, TBF. I'll take you, but only if I have to.....
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 30, 2008 Author Posted August 30, 2008 Ok fine, TBF. I'll take you, but only if I have to..... Hey, you're not playing right! I'm sure you've been reading up on all the crap being posted lately and understand the nature of this thread!
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