The "peter pan" women here don't know the simple rule of economics

[torranceshipman]

The kind that can't get a date :D:D

[shadowplay]

What kind of sick, twisted individual would create a user id for the express purpose of messing with people, considering that there are individuals on this site who are here looking for serious advice or opinions?

 

a garden variety troll perhaps?

[Trialbyfire]

The kind that can't get a date :D:D

No kidding!

 

a garden variety troll perhaps?

Trolls need to be IP banned.

[Kamille]

a garden variety troll perhaps?

 

well played SP.

 

FB, you're the tennis player. Shall we call that a drop shot?

[johan]

It's like taking advice from my cat. All he can say is "meow, meow", no matter what I ask him and who asks him!

 

Damn that gets infuriating doesn't it.

[Kamille]

Damn that gets infuriating doesn't it.

 

It would be much more entertaining if the cat replied :"hubba hubba!" once in awhile.

 

I'm serious.

[almost famous]

Eh, there are WAY too many women having babies well into their 30s and 40s to give any credence whatsoever into your post. There are also way too many women after 30 having fulfilling romantic relationships with men close to their age and not settling to put any credence whatsoever into your post. Sorry.

[Tomcat33]

Please tell me that you all realize that Frank is just messing with you.

 

 

Why he's GENIOUS!!!

 

Had us fooled all along.

[johan]

Threads like this are exhausting. Don't let yourself get stuck to this flypaper. You can walk away and feel free, and there will be no negative consequences at all.

[Tomcat33]

No they are fun.

[soserious1]

Resources are finite.

 

Indeed, from reading their posts you may believe that there are an infinite supply of decent men. Not so, there are a finite amount and they are being competed for.

 

This means women have to make a realistic choice about their partner and what they can attract. The fact is, a woman in her 30's is going past the prime of her fertility. In fact, any woman serious about having children probably has already chosen to find a stable environment for raising children by this age. Otherwise what has she been doing with her time?

 

Well adjusted women chose not to spend their time on casual affairs and settled for a good choice of stable male long ago. It is no good being a female in your 30's, and STILL looking for some stud as your lifelong partner, this will not work at all. Often the women who have this unrealistic approach and peter pan syndrome haven't quite climbed down from their pedestal yet, still believing that they are the young carefree woman because they can't accept that those times are over. Well guess what, those times are over, they were over long ago, and if you can't let go then you are ill equipped to deal with the different seasons of life.

 

We all grow old and picking the casual immature men as partners means you grow old alone. So either grow up, accept it, and pick the right men realistically or you'll still be living in this alternate dimension in a few years playing the 18 year old college girl type. And believe me, it's not attractive at all to the decent males for a woman in her 30's to be acting this way.

 

Vonerik? is that you Vonerik?

[Trialbyfire]

Well, truth be told, my cat gives better advice. At least he has different meows.

[Tony]

OK, OK everybody. I, too, am exhausted by this very long series of exchanges and arguments. I'm not really sure what the purpose of this thread was myself...even after reading the original post several times. In any case, I have learned a few things and left up a lot of posts that should have been edited or deleted.

 

In the interest of having people put their energy into helping those who desperately need advice on other threads, I'm going to close this one....that is, if I have enough energy left to do so.