The "peter pan" women here don't know the simple rule of economics

[Tomcat33]

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I also do not want to be settled for either. I don't want to be with a man that thought he was settling for me so that he could breed his own small baseball team to carry on his jeans.

 

 

Bleccchh that is SO true.

 

Frank I wonder if you showed your "wife" the part about settling for her, I'm sure she'll be thrilled to learn that.

[Touche]

:lmao: Chuckles all around.

 

Man, I can't stop laughing...between TC's post and JS's comment about a man to carry on his "jeans"....OMG!:lmao:

 

As to this:

 

think they're gods gift to men, but can't attract one that's good enough for them!

 

Who ever said they couldn't? Where are you getting this from?

 

I did. And I wasn't much different than these ladies at their ages.

 

So I'm not sure what you're trying to accomplish here.

 

What should they do? Say "Oh he's right...we'll just have to settle for less than the best like he did just so that we can be married."

 

 

I don't think so.

[FrankBlack]

This is Mrs Black speaking, hello there tomcat Yes my husband is a bit of an argumentative sod but you can't have it all can you?

[Trialbyfire]

Frank I wonder if you showed your "wife" the part about settling for her, I'm sure she'll be thrilled to learn that.

[Jersey Shortie]

Man, I can't stop laughing...between TC's post and JS's comment about a man to carry on his "jeans"....OMG!

 

 

Levi's will always be important.

 

I'm the worse typer ever..I just go and type it all out as fast as I can.

[torranceshipman]

Lol!!!! What do you mean 'what have we been doing' if we're in our 30's and not yet married with kids? What about having fun, enjoying a great education, going on adventures, dating cute guys, building a great career, etc? That's what I've been doing and it's awesome. And when the right man comes along I'll settle down with him, but not before (even if I have to wait a LONG time!-simply because I won't 'settle' or compromise just to be in a couple...why should I)?

 

You sound like you've been rejected a lot and are just bitter...leave us women alone, we're happy being single until we meet the right guy!

 

Plus, 'lowering standards' pretty much sounds like 'desperate for commitment, so will commit to fairly decent guy that I'm not into, just because society says I should by a certain age'...hardly the best basis for marriage/commitment and a healthy environment to bring your kids up, is it? Why not just stay single until you're absolutely sure you and your partner really have what it takes to do the job properly? Else you're kinda being irresponsible

[Tomcat33]

This is Mrs Black speaking, hello there tomcat Yes my husband is a bit of an argumentative sod but you can't have it all can you?

 

 

:lmao: Oooookkkk then Mrs Black.

 

Let's have it what do you think of the fact he settled for you? And what do you think his purpose is here Mrs Black, you know him better than anyone so what gives? And you just came in from out of town and the two of you are on a dating advice forum chatting with single women over 30? Are you under house arrest or something? :lmao:

 

This should be good.

[Touche]

Levi's will always be important.

 

I'm the worse typer ever..I just go and type it all out as fast as I can.

 

 

I do that too. Thanks for not being mad at me for poking a little fun there. It did make me laugh though.

[torranceshipman]

Lol, this is a funny post!

 

It is mighty strange that a married man is so wound up about the dating habits of women in their 30's....what a weird guy!

 

So do we think he's a 14yr old boy posting for fun, a single guy who keeps getting rejected by hot girls and is getting all bitter over it...or a married guy whose wife just posted on this thread with him? I'm not a betting gal, but if I were, none of my money'd be on the last one :D:D

[Touche]

This is Mrs Black speaking, hello there tomcat Yes my husband is a bit of an argumentative sod but you can't have it all can you?

 

Speak for yourself, honey. Some of us CAN and DO.

[Angel1111]

Even if you are married, you sound cynical and burned. A lot of women marry thinking they are getting a good guy. I can't tell you how many times I've seen people change drastically after they're married - particularly men. They seem to think 'now that I've got you where I want you, I can show you what a real ass I am and you can't do anything about it.' What is a person supposed to do with that?

 

That's pretty much the way it was with my sons's dad. He was fun-loving, easy going, nice to be around, etc. He changed a lot after we were married, and then really changed after our son was born. I'm still close to his family and his sister-in-law told me one day, "You know, I remember a time when --- was fun to be around." I barely remember that time now. Even his family can't stand being around him. And you know what? That divorce cost me a lot. I wanted more children and I wanted a husband that I could love, respect and depend on, who didn't try to control my every move; someone who didn't so badly misrepresent himself before we married. But I don't have that, I don't have more kids and I have to accept that's the way it is.

 

At the same time, being in your 30's is not the end of the world and it's not by any means old. I dated two guys after my divorce - one of them I would've married and had children by but that didn't work out. The other one I married but he turned out to be abusive and I wouldn't have had children with him for anything in the world. So, yeah, lots of bad choices will not get you a family and stability. Did I think I was making bad choices at the time? No. And that's the heart of the problem. Women don't always see through the games men play, the same as how there are men who don't see through some women. It's sad but it happens.

 

But I still feel lucky because I have an outstanding teenage son that most people would give their right arm to have. He is nothing short of awesome. And I'm grateful - as strange as it sounds - that I'm not one of those people stuck in a crappy marriage and staying in it just for the kids. So it's not a total loss and that's just the way I have to look at it. I'm 49 now and I know that people find love at all stages of their lives. If I thought that life was over after 30, I would've given up a long time ago.

[FrankBlack]

:lmao: Oooookkkk then Mrs Black.

 

Let's have it what do you think of the fact he settled for you? And what do you think his purpose is here Mrs Black, you know him better than anyone so what gives? And you just came in from out of town and the two of you are on a dating advice forum chatting with single women over 30? Are you under house arrest or something? :lmao:

 

This should be good.

 

[sIZE=2]Well of couse, everyone settles at some point, all of my friends went through tumultous relationships before finding the one who they felt comfortable with. I could have spent my life running around being a dolly bird looking for a handsome millionaire to whisk me around the world. Every woman dreams of such a man when they are young no? But I settled for a nice decent man because he's who I wanted to be with. We have very similar views on this and talked about it extensively when we first got together. You feel free to go out and party and do all that, there's nothing like cosying up to a man who you know is going to be there for you through thick and thin, who treats your mother like his own, always does something special for you on your birthday and reminds you how much he needs you always.

 

Anyway I'm not sure what "Frank" is doing here you'll have to ask him yourself, I'm sure he has good reason.

[/sIZE]

[torranceshipman]

Lol! No woman would write the phrase 'dolly bird' so Frank stop pretending to be a woman that you're married to :D:D

[Tomcat33]

[sIZE=2]. I could have spent my life running around being a dolly bird looking for a handsome millionaire to whisk me around the world. Every woman dreams of such a man when they are young no?

 

I don't!! And never have and I can guarantee MOST women don't dream of something so superficial.

 

You are not a woman, dear you are a guy trying to talk like your preconceived view of what a woman thinks, FRANKBLACK!

 

This is ridiculous. :lmao:

[Kamille]

[sIZE=2]Anyway I'm not sure what "Frank" is doing here you'll have to ask him yourself, I'm sure he has good reason.[/sIZE]

[sIZE=2][/sIZE]

 

oh we asked, repeatedly, didn't we Frank. The only answer he could come up with was: because I felt like it.

[carhill]

Hey Frank, seriously, you don't have to take the laptop into the loo with you when you take a dump....

 

How's that for some supply side economics....

[FrankBlack]

Kamille

 

I felt like being Captain save-a-spinster for the day, and why not indeed? My heart bleeds for all these bitter women that have wasted their best years.

[Shygirl15]

:lmao::lmao:

 

I have never cracked up so hard the way I did today! Man, all this shyit about Mrs Black and all is just ridiculous!

[Kamille]

Kamille

 

I felt like being Captain save-a-spinster for the day, and why not indeed? My heart bleeds for all these bitter women that have wasted their best years.

 

You are quite noble FB.

 

Like I said. If you have wisdom to propagate, you are welcome to give advice.

 

I would advise you stop making assumptions about people, their goals and their happiness based on their gender and age.

[Tomcat33]

Not as much as my heart bleeds for a person that needs to hide behind the FALSE mask of different people and circumstances in order to relay a conviction. How little must you think of yourself that you can't even stand by what you believe in without having to hide behind a false mask?

 

But I do appreciate you quitting while you were not going to get any more ahead. You lost the battle the moment you posted your ridiculous opening post and just progressively nose dove from there. :lmao:

 

But thanks for the laughs it was a slice, a slice of what I haven't determined yet...

 

A final thought FrankBlack, stupidity is the most unattractive thing a person can posses and there is no age or gender for that, it's just ugly all around and that kind of ugliness can stay with you for life.

[Trialbyfire]

I've been happily married for just under 3 years.

Btw, anyone notice this? A very short span of time. I've had relationships, nvm my marriage that lasted longer than this!

[IrishCarBomb]

Please tell me that you all realize that Frank is just messing with you.

[Kamille]

Please tell me that you all realize that Frank is just messing with you.

 

No!?? Get out of here!!!

 

Please tell me you saw we were messing with him too?

[IrishCarBomb]

Please tell me you saw we were messing with him too?

 

With you I have no doubt. Some others I am not so sure.

[Trialbyfire]

Please tell me that you all realize that Frank is just messing with you.

What kind of sick, twisted individual would create a user id for the express purpose of messing with people, considering that there are individuals on this site who are here looking for serious advice or opinions?