Bells Posted August 30, 2008 Posted August 30, 2008 Sorry..it's suppose to be "Divorces occured because of NO Friends first" Apparently, from the previous post about the whole "Friends First" thing, alot of people had little or no success with it. And a couple that started out as "buddies" , from what I picked up from it, remained buddies....but...in very rare instances.....people went from being friends to dating. (The layers of onion theory). I think I've personally discovered....that some people, when it comes to dating, are wired a certain way....even with their dating methods. Things like "You gotta make your move (be it sex or kissing) by the 2nd or 3rd date", probably wouldn't apply to me, even though it applies to the majority. Personally, I think I HAVE to be friends first, in the beginning, sometimes little or no flirting. But, I think it takes longer for others than some. This is probably why you see so many divorces these says, people never were "Friends First" The woman I started seeing says her daughter has a boyfriend, and if you were to see them together, they seem more like "buddies" and lovers...but they had this "best friend" vibe about them. I see people making out on the first date...and I sometimes wonder, is that really sincere...or is it just merely hormones? I witnessed this myself, saw some woman I knew of who just met a guy at a club....started making out about 15 mins into dancing. I was like "what's up with that?"
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