Orbit Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 So I have been kinda dating this woman for a few months. Nothing serious and not exclusive. So I sent her a text over the weekend and asked if she wanted to go out this week. She did not respond and I saw her during the week (we work together, and don’t tell me I shouldn’t date someone from work, this is not what this is about, I know it’s a bad idea!) but she never said anything to me. So tonight I asked why she didn’t get back to me and that I wasn’t mad, just curious. Her first response was “I didn’t get back to you?” and then she said she remembered that she intended to, but she guess that she forgot and then asked if I wanted to get a quick drink after work and that she is supposed to hang out with her friends later in the night. I told her I would get back to her because I am supposed to hang out with friends tomorrow also, but the fact is I do want to see her and I know if I do go out with her I can get her to blow off her friends to stay with me. I am real confused because it seems like I kinda got blown off because she should have remembered that she never responded to me when she saw me right? But then again why would she ask me to go out for drinks if she was blowing me off? Very ****ing confused. What do ya think?
JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I find it confusing too. When you say you've been dating this woman, how far did you get?
Author Orbit Posted August 29, 2008 Author Posted August 29, 2008 No sex. Thirteen year old stuff. Holding hands and touching. Never actually kissed her. We have been friends and have been moving slowly towards an intimate relationship. She had a fwb that she recently ended. I also have one that she knows I am want to end. Think that is part of our problem. We both want something more than just sex and we have been taking it slow because if we hook up it will mean something. We are very close friends and have a special connection to one another. Knda romantic huh?
JoeNewbie Posted August 29, 2008 Posted August 29, 2008 I can guarantee you she did not "forget". Give her some space and let her call you back.
Author Orbit Posted August 29, 2008 Author Posted August 29, 2008 But she wants to go out tomorrow. I will see her anyway. Should I not go out with her?
JoeNewbie Posted August 29, 2008 Posted August 29, 2008 I guess the right thing to do would be to tell her you had plans and can't make it. Are you strong enough to do that?
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