everlasting Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I'm having a tough time in my relationship the last while and I really need someone's input. I've been with this guy for almost 4 years and we have 3 children. 1 of which is not his biologically. The last few months it seems that he's turned into a misserable person. Well not seems he has. Sometimes I try to think that it's just me, but he is so cold to me it's unbearable to me. If I call him on the phone to ask a question he answere's me with, yeah uhhuhhh yup ok uhuh yeah and then will say bye and hang up on me. I've brought it up to him several times how it hurts my feelings but he STILL does is. I've been feeling so unloved by him the other night I asked him if he loves me and he answered with a yes and I asked him why and he wouldn't answere me. I said can you give me just 5 reason...and he sat there for a minute and said no I can't. When he said that it made me VERY emotional because in the 3.5 years we've been together he's never told me why. Is this a normal thing? Or am I just being a woman. I asked him because I'm feeling so unloved that I wanted to hear from him that he does love me and that he does want to be with me. Does any of this make sense? I just need someone's honest oppinion. I'm almost at a breaking point but I'm afraid to leave because being a single mom of three children scares me to death. Thanks in advance!
Mr. Lucky Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I don't know if this will be any consolation to you, but some guys just are not good at the "Hallmark moments" kind of stuff. Ever read "Cyrano de Bergerac" or see the Steve Martin movie "Roxanne", based on the same play? The main character is hired by a toungue-tied friend to surreptiously express thoughts of true love that his friend just can't seem to verbalize. If you judged him based soley on his acts and not on his words (or lack thereof), he does he make you feel ??? Mr. Lucky
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