hellokitty55 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 1.) How do you know if a guy is interested in dating or just hooking up? I just met someone and in the first hour I could tell he was attracted/interested in me..he texted me alot yesterday & asked if i was seeing someone, and when he could see me again...he's going to cook for me and we're gonna see a movie. He hasnt talked about sex or anything like that. 2.) Should I kiss him on the first date if he tries & I like him? I dont want to give him the wrong impression..I dont want him to think Im okay with just hooking up..I rather be dating someone and then get more physical.
Star Gazer Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Cook for you? Does that mean your first date would be at his house?
Shygirl15 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 1.) How do you know if a guy is interested in dating or just hooking up? He will invite me out in public, rather than his house 2.) Should I kiss him on the first date if he tries & I like him? If you want. It's always better keep them waiting though.
LionLover Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Cook for you, ha! Nope! I would meet him out in a public setting for a first date.
A.G.Doren Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I lean toward the public place for the first date although according to a thread here not long ago most guys would not expect sex just cause you were at their house.
rod_in_gtown Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Yeah, I wouldn't expect to have sex with someone just because we've had a date at my house. I wouldn't ask to have a first date at my house because I don't think they would say yes (and from the responses above I see that this is generally true). HOWEVER, I would love to have dates at my house more often because I love to cook, you get more quality time, there's less noise, you control the music and the mood of the place, there's no parking to worry about the quality of the ingredients is usually very good, is less expensive, there's no time limit (you're done eating and you feel compelled to leave because there are people waiting to be seated). Now back to the point. If you're interested in being serious, I would say kiss him if you really feel the moment is there, but don't force it and definitely don't sleep with him on the first date (I had a woman who was interested in dating but slept with me on the first date and in hindsight I wish she hadn't).
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