Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Joe, I'm like VISA. I'm everywhere you want me to be. How's 8PM on SAT? How about now? We both cum and hang up, no questions asked.
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I hate the fact that posts cannot be deleted on LS. But here's why I won't date her. My dad dated her mom for many years. While we technically aren't siblings, I just couldn't do it. Oh please. There's no blood relation. Go out with her if you like each other.
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 How about now? We both cum and hang up, no questions asked. Yes, my number is: 310-735-0099 Call me right away!
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Yes, my number is: 310-735-0099 Call me right away! Gee I think I just got "rejected"!
Green Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Yes, my number is: 310-735-0099 Call me right away! no way are u insane... that cant be ur number. If thats a cell I'm going to try to text it through the internet
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 no way are u insane... that cant be ur number. If thats a cell I'm going to try to text it through the internet No worries I already looked it up...
Green Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 ah yes ur smart I googled it after u said that 310-735-0099 (Los Angeles) 212-660-2245 (New York) 415-228-0207 (San Francisco) 206-494-0827 all rejection numbers... I wonder if it sends u a rejection txt that would be cool... I should invent the rejection txt one
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Gee I think I just got "rejected"! I'm glad you had a sense of humor about it. Still, as we have said, with no blood between you and this gal, why not go for it? Seriously?
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Seriously, if I were to do anything it would be purely out of lust and perversion. I could never have romantic feelings for her. I'd screw up our relationship for some temporary relief. I'd love to have sex with her until we are both sore but I don't think we could ever look at each other in the same way afterwards.
2sunny Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 oh jeez, just give it a go JN! set up some specific rules that you agree on - IF it doesn't work out being more intimate... then you both remain the same friends you always have been.
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Seriously, if I were to do anything it would be purely out of lust and perversion. I could never have romantic feelings for her. I'd screw up our relationship for some temporary relief. I'd love to have sex with her until we are both sore but I don't think we could ever look at each other in the same way afterwards. Oh please. These are lame excuses. Just hang out with her. You've known her for 10 years, she digs you, you dig her. Life is not quite as complicated as you think.
EricO54 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Interesting.... I never considered phone sex as I always thought it was a poor subsitute for the real thing. But now that you mention it lol.
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Interesting.... I never considered phone sex as I always thought it was a poor subsitute for the real thing. But now that you mention it lol. Phone sex is not a substitute - it's just a different way to go about it. And given the right circumstances, it can be pretty darn hot.
Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Phone sex is hot and fun.. Only YOU know how you feel about her.. but if I were you.. I would have a talk with her.. she might have some expectations, because, in her mind, maybe she doesn't see you as 'family' at all... and she might end up falling for you.. If you just want to have fun over the phone or in real .. tell her that's all you want.. otherwise you might end up in a strange and uncomfortable position around the table on Sunday.
Trialbyfire Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Sex is sex, be it phone or in real life, although the former doesn't replace the latter by any means. Call her and clarify. Don't be the guy who left her hanging, wondering if she just got used.
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 29, 2008 Author Posted August 29, 2008 Well, it happened again this morning. I was doing my thing before getting ready for work and I just couldn't keep her off my mind. So I called her and explained that I was really turned on... Unlike the first time, where we didn't talk much but rather breathed really hard (!), this time around we said what we'd do to each other, and that made the whole experience a lot more "personal". I think my little head has put me in big trouble again.
Ruby Slippers Posted August 29, 2008 Posted August 29, 2008 As for the original question, I think it's hot and fun. For me, no emotional attachments arise from it when it's casual. You get a lot of the same excitement of no-strings sex with none of the risks. I also think it's a great way to expand your sexual horizons in a relationship. Either way, I think it's a blast. If it happened with a good, long-time friend, I imagine I'd feel the same way. If I didn't have feelings for him before, phone sex probably wouldn't cause them.
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