JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Well I think I may have made a mistake. I've been friends with this girl for perhaps 10 years now. For a number of reasons, nothing will/should ever happen between us. It all started as a joke about a month ago. She kept saying how "stuck up" I was around her - which is true. She's an attractive girl and I really don't want to mess things up. Anyhow, tonight we were chatting on MSN and we started to joke around about sex. The jokes became more and more explicit and before I knew it I was describing how I like to masturbate, how often I do it, etc. I ended up being really turned on. Then the phone rang. My friend asked me whether I was serious or just kidding. To make a long story short, we ended up climaxing together over the phone and it was incredibly exciting. I really don't want to take it any further but was wondering how most people view phone sex in terms of emotions (especially women). I'm sure I can just forget about this but I'm afraid she might have different expectations.
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I'd expect a ring after that. Like as in ENGAGEMENT. Actually, I've never had phone sex with someone I wasn't already screwing. You kids and your phone antics, I tell ya...
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 10 years?!! What's the problem??? Why haven't you asked her out?
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 10 years?!! What's the problem??? Why haven't you asked her out? I don't want to go into too much specifics in case someone reads this but trust me, we cannot date...
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 I'd expect a ring after that. Like as in ENGAGEMENT. Actually, I've never had phone sex with someone I wasn't already screwing. You kids and your phone antics, I tell ya... Well I guess I better start saving, huh?
Touche Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 JB! I don't see the problem. If you don't want to take it further than maybe you shouldn't do this with her again. Or ask her if she's ok with just doing this with no further expectations. There's no rule written in stone you know.
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I don't want to go into too much specifics in case someone reads this but trust me, we cannot date... She married?
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I don't want to go into too much specifics in case someone reads this but trust me, we cannot date... Is she in prison, Joe? You can tell us. We're felon-friendly (not).
Touche Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I don't want to go into too much specifics in case someone reads this but trust me, we cannot date... Well, it's obvious that you're married or in a committed relationship then. Yes, it counts. Shame on you.
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 There's no rule written in stone you know. Apparently, there is... http://www.freewilliamsburg.com/june_2003/undersider.html
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 She married? No she's a single mom. And she knows my parents very well...
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 No she's a single mom. And she knows my parents very well... Ok then, you must be married.
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 No she's a single mom. And she knows my parents very well... But she's locked up, right?
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Well, it's obvious that you're married or in a committed relationship then. Yes, it counts. Shame on you. We are both single. Why jump to conclusions? I am not wondering whether what I did was right or wrong. I am wondering about how phone sex is viewed from an emotional standpoint (by women).
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 We are both single. Why jump to conclusions? I am not wondering whether what I did was right or wrong. I am wondering about how phone sex is viewed from an emotional standpoint (by women). If that is the case, I am wondering why you two aren't dating....
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Ok then, you must be married. No I am single and trying to land a decent date for this weekend...
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 No I am single and trying to land a decent date for this weekend... I'd say I'd have dinner with you, but I'm afraid you'd call me later for phone sex, Joe.
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 I hate the fact that posts cannot be deleted on LS. But here's why I won't date her. My dad dated her mom for many years. While we technically aren't siblings, I just couldn't do it.
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 I'd say I'd have dinner with you, but I'm afraid you'd call me later for phone sex, Joe. I am known for having very good taste when it comes to food. And apparently I am quite good with phone sex as well. Since we don't live in the same neighborhood, how about we skip dinner?
Green Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 thats the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard hahahah. Dude if it was me and there was a girl who actualy was my half sister... but wasnt raised as my half sister and we had feelings I would date... and ur saying this girl isnt even ur half sister... and what you wrote even with all the details doesnt give you away so dont be paranoid...
Lucky_One Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I don't guess your squeamishness about semi-incestual sex pertains to just having mutual orgasms? Are you 10000% positive that there is NO way that your dad is her father, btw?
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 I don't guess your squeamishness about semi-incestual sex pertains to just having mutual orgasms? Are you 10000% positive that there is NO way that your dad is her father, btw? Oh I am one bazillion percent sure!
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 thats the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard hahahah. Dude if it was me and there was a girl who actualy was my half sister... but wasnt raised as my half sister and we had feelings I would date... Good thing you didn't play Marty McFly in BTTF Part I!
Jilly Bean Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 I am known for having very good taste when it comes to food. And apparently I am quite good with phone sex as well. Since we don't live in the same neighborhood, how about we skip dinner? Joe, I'm like VISA. I'm everywhere you want me to be. How's 8PM on SAT? I had a friend who's widowed Dad married a woman. Her son ended up marrying her sister. So, related by marriage only... You guys share no blood, I saw go for it! Plus, you can move to Virginia or Kentucky where this kind of thing is very cool to do.
Green Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Good thing you didn't play Marty McFly in BTTF Part I! if your father had gone out with this girl... then I;d say no way... your father went out with her mother.... and you for some reason think she is your half sister? well is she... cause if not ur just being really silly and your on course already doing things you really shouldnt if you think this girl is your sister. yes phone sex means something to a girl... and to a guy. Its not just like a high five. Dude I say go for it unless she is your sister
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