Peter_pan Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 hey guys hope yall doing ok. stay strong, it gets better. i know people say its easier to move on if you find someone else. well its true. i have fallen for a girl and we are on a date fri i have a good vibe about this one, only little downer is she shares the same name as the ex.. so when i read a txt today that ended in lots of love (her name) i was like, kinda weird lol basically i re read the "letter" which i never sent to the ex. and all i can say is thank god.... you can tell how desperate i was im soooo glad i didnt give her the satisfaction. i read it and i didnt feel anything. all that stuff i read no longer brings up emotional feelings to want her back. i now know i no longer love her i now realise i am out the other side. ready to rebuild my life which i have already done successfully. im over it all and realized my life will go on. sure i miss things about her and places we went and things we did but you cant hold onto a memory, even if your still with that person the memory wont change. but i no longer want her back i no deep down it would be the worst thing i could do. how good is that? finally feel free from all this mess. this forum is great xxx
sultry33 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 hi peter thats great:D just take it slow and enjoy i remember once i was going out wit someone called paul.. plus had a friend called paul, got me in some trouble late night texts lol but once my daughter told her teacher i had 2 bfs both called paul:eek: hope all goes well friday x
LikeCharlotte Posted August 29, 2008 Posted August 29, 2008 Peter! Welcome to the light. Bask in it because the juxtaposition of grief to joy in such close succession can show you a lot about yourself. No matte what happens you know now that you have lost nothing by experiencing heartbreak. In fact you probably have a better idea of what you have to contribute and what you are looking for. This new interest gets to enjoy a better, stronger, smarter guy than you were before. Take it slow and congrats on your healing.
Author Peter_pan Posted August 29, 2008 Author Posted August 29, 2008 great day !!! went so well had so much fun. conversation never ran dry. she is so nice and down to earth. she is such an interesting girl !! my ex is so dull (no im not comparing them everyone is different) lol. she is coming over tonight for a movie night xxx
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