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How to politely decline a 2nd date?


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I would be fine with this.

Thirded (fourthed?). At most, I'd be a little sad briefly, but I'd like to know the book was closed and I could move on. I applaud your honesty.

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To get back to the original poster. One time I got hot and heavy with a guy for a day. Thought about it later, and realized I thought he was a bit weird, and had nooooooo desire to ever see him again, Anyway, I couldn't say I felt no spark, since, well, lol. I ended up telling him I had decided to become a lesbian. (He called my a week later, so that could have happened.) I was in my early 20's and most of my friends were lesbians, so it wasn't THAT far festched. (and yes, I have kissed a girl but DIDN'T like it, lol.) It worked like a charm. Never heard from him again. Most of the time I just tell guys I don't feel the chemistry. No guy has ever asked why.

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