singlelife Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I am currently single but have no problem dating. I have always burnt my women out. My sis told me about her old bf and he does a lot of the things I do. I was shocked she still mostly talks about him and care less about the other good guys. So I started thinking. I am not the best looking or in tip top shape but I have alwas had hot girlfriends and friends with benefits. My sis has been out with me and seen me get women and is suprised because I have no game. She even says I am a jerk and need to change. I want to but it's not easy and women don't seem to mind. So my question is why do we so called bad boys get lots of women.
Jilly Bean Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 What you're getting is damaged women who enjoy the challenge of thinking they can "change" you. Once a woman reaches her 30's, she tends to lose interest in these type of guys, and throws them over for the good guys.
Ocean-Blue Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 No one likes a jerk, women included. But women do tend to gravitate towards a more "masculine" man (one who isn't afraid of his sexuality, one who doesn't make sheepish apologies for who he is, etc). There's a difference.
Woggle Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Women like drama and they like a man that is not a doormat. Bad boys bring both.
Ocean-Blue Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Women like drama and they like a man that is not a doormat. Bad boys bring both. Define drama, Woggle. And the label "bad boy" is really misleading. There are impressionable idiots out there that think being an a$$ will get them a$$...
Woggle Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Define drama, Woggle. And the label "bad boy" is really misleading. There are impressionable idiots out there that think being an a$$ will get them a$$... There are some women but not all that get very bored and antsy when they have peace and contentment in a relationship. They always feel the need to stir things up and that is where the bad boy comes in. He is sort of like an emotional drug.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 It depends on how old they are, like Jilly said, once women reach their 30's, most women prefer to look for good guys to settle down with. Women in their early 20s prefer adventure and the idea of being tied down doesn't appeal to them. So dating a bad boy adds more drama, spontaneity to her life. These kind of relationships don't last, and when they do, most women just follow the same pattern and date the same kind of jerks until they get tired of it.
Woggle Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Many of these women by the time they hit 30 have been burnt so badly by these bad boys that they now have a chip on their shoulder against all men and god help any man that tries to get close.
sultry33 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Many of these women by the time they hit 30 have been burnt so badly by these bad boys that they now have a chip on their shoulder against all men and god help any man that tries to get close. a bad boy is good to play with but to keep nooo too much work imo;)
Woggle Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 a bad boy is good to play with but to keep nooo too much work imo;) The thing is that many of these women fall in love with these men anyway and when they get used they go around saying no good men exist.
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Many of these women by the time they hit 30 have been burnt so badly by these bad boys that they now have a chip on their shoulder against all men and god help any man that tries to get close. There are definitley some females in their 50's that still have that same chip on their shoulder!
Author singlelife Posted August 27, 2008 Author Posted August 27, 2008 ok. i guess women like to have fun
Suiyobi Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Damn, looks like I gotta find me some 30-year old lady...
xpaperxcutx Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 ok. i guess women like to have fun No it would be more like most women would love to settle down, while girls just want to have fun. Cindi Lauper knew what she was singing about.
kchiapet95 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 This whole entire post makes me want to vomit. Whenever I see Woggle's name on a post, I just want to toss my cookies.
carhill Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 This whole entire post makes me want to vomit. Whenever I see Woggle's name on a post, I just want to toss my cookies. But that doesn't make him wrong I've been the emotional whore for enough of these damaged women to know he speaks the truth.
sultry33 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 The thing is that many of these women fall in love with these men anyway and when they get used they go around saying no good men exist. yes very true but then thats the fault of the woman.. bad boys are alot of fun until you want to tame them/keep them.. then they run a mile.. unless you are a challenge but then most just enjoy the chase then go.. To be honest at least you know where you stand with a so called bad boy.. i have met some and when you dont take the bait. lol i was badder;) they get mean:sick: personally i like a bit of both.. not too nice or too bad
rod_in_gtown Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Unfortunately I can attest to this. I've been the "good guy" for many years, my close female friends constantly say that I'm a real catch and a "rare find" for the city I live in. But when I'm out of a relationship and feel like I need an ego boost, I know how to play the bad boy. And when I do there's usually a lot more women in my life. It's the honest, drama-free women who are worth bringing home to meet the parents that seem to be in very short supply these days.
kchiapet95 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 There are so many generalizations being thrown about in this thread. "Women" this. "Women" that. Some women. Just like some men from New Jersey are complete chauvinist pigs. That doesn't make them all like that. I'm not feeding the trolls.
audrey_1 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 There are some women but not all that get very bored and antsy when they have peace and contentment in a relationship. They always feel the need to stir things up and that is where the bad boy comes in. He is sort of like an emotional drug. Many of these women by the time they hit 30 have been burnt so badly by these bad boys that they now have a chip on their shoulder against all men and god help any man that tries to get close. Peace and contentment in a relationship with a decent man with minimal drama is what I seek. Yes, I have my reservations about "getting close," but I'm working on it. There are exceptions to Woggle's rule.
carhill Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I watched three women, one being my wife, fall under the spell of the loud, obnoxious bad boy at the concert we attended this past weekend as he spouted his arrogant BS about who he knew and how he could get them backstage to meet some of the band (whom my wife and I already know anyway). It didn't matter; they were like cattle to the slaughterhouse. The only thing that altered their behavior was my saying "I'm leaving; do what you want" and my wife knows I would have. I must say, with all due respect, that some women, sometimes, are pure idiots.
Melrapuo Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 It depends on how old they are, like Jilly said, once women reach their 30's, most women prefer to look for good guys to settle down with. Women in their early 20s prefer adventure and the idea of being tied down doesn't appeal to them. So dating a bad boy adds more drama, spontaneity to her life. These kind of relationships don't last, and when they do, most women just follow the same pattern and date the same kind of jerks until they get tired of it. O awesome. This is exactly what happened with my ex. Gdi...
Lizzie60 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I don't believe in 'titles' bad boys, good boys.. blablabla.. I think people mix bad boys with confidence... independance.. That's why women are at their feet.. not because he's bad..geezzz...but because he's confident, independant, he has a 'life'... same with women.. 'bitches' are also what people call 'independant, confident, strong' women..
pandagirl Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 It's just that "nice guys" have the connotation of being boring and uninteresting. I need a dynamic personality, someone who is confident and secure -- if that can come in the form of a "nice guy" then you've got a winner. To me true "bad boys" are just selfish jerks who don't treat people well. There is nothing appealing about that.
audrey_1 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I watched three women, one being my wife, fall under the spell of the loud, obnoxious bad boy at the concert we attended this past weekend as he spouted his arrogant BS about who he knew and how he could get them backstage to meet some of the band (whom my wife and I already know anyway). It didn't matter; they were like cattle to the slaughterhouse. :sick: All over that guy. :sick: I think people mix bad boys with confidence... independance.. same with women.. 'bitches' are also what people call 'independant, confident, strong' women.. True. It's just that "nice guys" have the connotation of being boring and uninteresting. I need a dynamic personality, someone who is confident and secure -- if that can come in the form of a "nice guy" then you've got a winner. To me true "bad boys" are just selfish jerks who don't treat people well. There is nothing appealing about that. Bingo.
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