jane79 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, it has been very rocky all the through but we allways get back together. last year i fell pregnant with his child i wanted to keep the baby so he left me he said why would i want to keep it, he said it was only a cell why did i care about it! he said if i keep it im only doing to trap him. in the end i decided to have an abortion with the money he posted through my letter box. the week after he wanted me back, me been a fool went back. he says hes very sorry for the way he treat me. Then 3 month after that i found out that he had been on a cheating website he had been looking for girls in our area, he said it ment nothing it was just something he was looking at. i still stayed with him. i have ended it about 10000 but he allways come back to me tells me what i want to hear . i dont trust him, when he goes out i kick up such a fuss and i no its wrong for me to do that. he never tells me he loves me or that i look nice or that he is happy with me. he doest show me any kind of affection. but when i end it he says he does love me and never wants to loose me. despite all of this we all ways get back together, i dont no if thats bacause i love him so much and he does feel the same or is it because we are stuck in a rut or because he doesnt want some one else to have me? ive tried so hard to walk away my family and friends hate what hes done to me and will not speak to him. im scared if i do end it may be im making a mistake, maybe these things are just some things we have to get through. he said he doesnt no how to show affection.
Sammy303 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Honey you need out of this relationship - not because you are not getting on, or you dont trust him but a man who treats his love like he treated you when you were pregnant is unforgiveable. To me he showed no comfort or compassion for what must have been an incredibly difficult decision for you. In that position you needed love and support and it was his responsibility to give that to you, whether he wanted the baby or not, he had a responsibility to look after you. You deserve to be with someone who makes you happy, not sad. Sometimes walking away is the hardest and bravest thing to do, but in the long term it will be the best thing you ever do. If he truly loves you, let him show it to you before you even consider getting back together. Best of luck honey, just dont waste your life away.......Im no expert, but I hope this helps x x
Author jane79 Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 thanks sammy for your reply, i honestly dont no how to walk away. I want to so much, has any body got any tips how to get the strenth to end it for good?
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