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Hi-I am new to this thread but I thought I would give it a shot.

 

I met a guy about a month or so ago (on duty...he is a police officer). I needed to talk to an officer about a particular situation I was in so I went to the station. Anyway, he is the one who helped me out and he was very nice. I really appreciated him helping me out as much as he did so I went out of my way to thank him a few days later. We started talking over the phone as well as texting and to my surprise it was fun and flirty. Next thing you know he started meeting up with me on his breaks. I figured pretty soon that he would ask me to hang out outside of his work...but he has yet to. I have made it clear that I am interested in him...he has told me he feels the same way but for some reason he still only wants to see me on his breaks at work. I have straight up asked him if he is seeing anyone and he said no (I also took notice of no wedding ring from the beginning :laugh:). Any ideas on what is going on here?

 

Also today he messaged me trying to meet up but I was at work. I told him we could meet up after I was done and he told me to call him. He did not answer and has not called me back yet.

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I have some friends who are cops. They have really tough schedules, and sometimes forget that we work 9-5 when they don't. I've had a friend call me at 3am not realizing it wasn't 7 or 8 at night. If you are comfortable enough maybe you could ask him out?

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He's married.

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He's married. Cops often remove all jewelry when on duty.

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I am about 99% sure he is married or at the least engaged and living with someone. Have friends that are cops and they are no angels when it comes to their wives.

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