xpaperxcutx Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Creepy how men are attracted to anything they can fit their penis into ( American Pie ). But Porter you remind of Heidi Klum when she was pregnant. Her pregnancy just made her glow, and that is very beautiful.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 They find her attractive, and they are a bit classless. This happens to me every time I walk down the street in my neighborhood. Men from some cultures "catcall" to the ladies. You are just walking, minding your own business, and suddenly, "hey beautiful, you single?" If I am walking down the street in my scrubs, then surely I do not look as if I am up for romp in the park. This happens to all women, all sizes, all different standards of beauty. I see the situation with the pregnant woman as no different. It's a type of catcall.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 My point is that the approach has much more to do with the men themselves, than with the woman looking "easy".
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Cherry, how do you know? Or is that just what you want to believe all men think? As I posted earlier, men think of sex every 52 seconds, while women might think of actual sex once a day, on average. If men are VERY HORNY they hit on what they think they have a chance with sexually. Thats how men are wired. Maybe these men scored with a pregnant girl before, and they are thinking it is easier, she can't get pregnant, or some type of fantasy. Maybe some of their buddies told them pregnant women are always horny, who knows. Not all men are geniuses, as often times they are thinking with the wrong head. I read a study in which women get ht on much more often if they are dressed regularly,or almost frumpy, than if they are all dressed up to the nines, with hair, make up , and nails done. The former looks more attainable than the latter. Or "easier"
Touche Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 If men are VERY HORNY they hit on what they think they have a chance with sexually You meant boys. Not men. Classy MEN are a little more discriminating. Actually a LOT more discriminating. But some of you may not understand exactly what I mean by that.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 If we lived by Vonerik's standards no woman in the world should feel good about herself or about the male attention she recieves unless she is a perfect size 2, 36c and no older then 25. If she isn't any of these things and receives male attention it's obviously because she is a pathetic loser and the man is desperate for sex with anything. It couldn't be because a man is actually attracted to her and values her. I'm sorry but I have had guys shot out to me "hey baby" when I was wearing jeans, and a tee shirt. I wasn't dressed like a slut and I wasn't dressed frumpy. I don't look cheap and I am quite cute and not pregnant. My girlfriend is a goregous Indian girl who once had a man ask her if she wanted to model for Ralph Lauren while on the street one day. And men shout out to her "hey baby" too. Yes,, She is probably posting for some type of validation. So all the other women can say "Well its because you are sooo beautiful, you are glowing, and all the men on Earth want you even though you are pregnant, and have another kid with you. You are a model and have a jaguar! Spare me. We all like validation. And no one said, not even the OP, that every man should and does want her. All she said was there were alot of men that hit on her that day. I have seen beautiful women not get hit on because their attitudes and less attractive girls have guys lined up to date them because of their attitude. Sometimes there is an engery inside someone that people pick up on that trancends looks. And sometimes looks is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe you arne't attracted to pregnant women and that's fine. But why you feel the need to be so smashingly nasty and derogatory about women in youre response is beyond me. It's like you don't want any woman to feel good about hersel.f
Author porter218 Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Funny how you fell for this thread and responded seriously. Anyone who complains of this BS is quite obviously seeking some kind of validation. On the freakin' internet too. Unless a man is pawing at you and being totally inappropriate and gross, most women enjoy male attention. To say otherwise is an outright bullcrap LIE. No actually I don't like much attention. I know that my H flips the F out when I get attention so it makes me uncomfortable to get it. Not looking for validation here.
vonerik012 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Jersey, the OP asked the question of why she was receiving so much attention. Since I am a man, I have a better idea of how they think than you. Men always tell each other what they do, who they would have sex with, who they think is attractive, what type of woman, their experiences etc. They do not tell women. Or maybe she did not want a real answer, and she just wanted women to tell her how she looks like Heidi Klum and she is glowing on an internet message board. I don't know. Did you answer her question, or just try to poke holes in my theory? Why are men screaming out the car window, or asking if she is single? An obviously pregnant woman with another kid with a ring on her finger? Because she looks like wonderful dating material? lol
almost famous Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Ok there were also male posters who stated they found pregnant women sexy/attractive/beautiful and had women who posted their SOs felt they were hot as hell when they were pregnant and couldn't keep their hands off of them. We also have men who love blonds. Blonds attract attention. There are men who love sporty women....thus the t-shirt and gym shorts are a possible turn-on for lots of men. Then we have the men who go for the natural no makeup look. I hear that all the time, that lots of men prefer little to no makeup on women. We have a woman who is attractive, a comparison to Heidi Klum was mentioned by someone who had seen her photo, with all these qualities. She has a kid with her...doesn't mean she's still with the child's father to outside observers. We also know that guys don't always look for the wedding ring, especially right on the street, it's not always obvious. We also have men who give unsolicited verbal appreciation of a woman regardless of her obvious marital status. It's not rocket science, Vonerik.
vonerik012 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 LOL So what were the intentions of these men? What drove them to go out of their way to ask if she is single, or shout out the car at her? A date? A relationship? Marriage? Or what they think of every 52 seconds , sex?
almost famous Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 You're very naive if you think men don't pursue married/pregnant women. Ummmm, how many people remarry after a divorce? MOST PEOPLE DO. There was a poster a while back who had fallen in love with a pregnant woman.
vonerik012 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 LOL.. You are very naive if you think men NEVER think of sex when hitting on women on the street. yeah these guys yelling out the window wanted to start a relationship with her right before she gives birth.. .. lol How do you even know these men are single? Within about 2 minutes these same guys are hitting on another woman they see pumping gas or walking down the street. have you even heard of police prostitution stings? or watched cops? They put some middle aged undercover female cop on the street, and within minutes men are pulling over to offer her money for sex..married men, doctors, lawyers, poor guys, young guys, old guys..
Author porter218 Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Or maybe she did not want a real answer, and she just wanted women to tell her how she looks like Heidi Klum and she is glowing on an internet message board. I don't know. Whatever dude.. calm down..I welcomed all answers. Like I said, not looking for validation here. Just wanted to find out if guys really didn't care if a woman was pregnant or maybe they just thought I was a little thick around the midsection..I don't know. I just found it really odd. If I were a man I would be turned off by a woman having some other mans baby growing in her belly...but then again I am not a man.
vonerik012 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Whatever dude.. calm down..I welcomed all answers. Like I said, not looking for validation here. Just wanted to find out if guys really didn't care if a woman was pregnant or maybe they just thought I was a little thick around the midsection..I don't know. I just found it really odd. If I were a man I would be turned off by a woman having some other mans baby growing in her belly...but then again I am not a man. Cared about it in what way? As in wanting to court you? Or bang you? Chances are they do not want to date and court a stranger pregnant girl off the street at the gas station with another kid around. This would also not drive them to be so spontaneous. Bang you? Some men bang anything and do not care. Those men are very spontaneous in hitting on any woman. As I said, you just happened to be there. 1 minute later they forgot you, and are yelling out the window at another woman on the street.
almost famous Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Why do you say middleaged, as if there is no way a man wouldn't want to date her? Sorry but you are an *******. LOL.. You are very naive if you think men NEVER think of sex when hitting on women on the street. yeah these guys yelling out the window wanted to start a relationship with her right before she gives birth.. .. lol How do you even know these men are single? Within about 2 minutes these same guys are hitting on another woman they see pumping gas or walking down the street. have you even heard of police prostitution stings? or watched cops? They put some middle aged undercover female cop on the street, and within minutes men are pulling over to offer her money for sex..married men, doctors, lawyers, poor guys, young guys, old guys..
Jersey Shortie Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Jersey, the OP asked the question of why she was receiving so much attention. Since I am a man, I have a better idea of how they think than you. I am sure you do on some level. I however think your own experience in life have twisted your perspective of females. I never have seen you say anything kind to a woman on this board. Dosen't mean you haven't, just means I haven't seen it. I have seen you rip into alot of them though thats for sure. What is your deal? Or maybe she did not want a real answer, and she just wanted women to tell her how she looks like Heidi Klum and she is glowing on an internet message board. I don't know. You're opinion is dense. I don't think she was looking for Heidi Klum compliments anymore then when a man posts a question/situation on this message board and wants to be told he is Brad Pitt incarnet. Did you answer her question, or just try to poke holes in my theory? Why are men screaming out the car window, or asking if she is single? An obviously pregnant woman with another kid with a ring on her finger? Because she looks like wonderful dating material? lol Dude, your theories are easy to poke holes in. I really don't know why men were shouting out at her. They might have found her hot but not wanted to date her, they might have just been going on action and not thinking just to have some fun with a pretty lady with no intention of even wanting sex with her, I don't know. I do know that men even meet super hot girls and just want to have sex with them. So they could have just been looking for sex. But the snide assertion you make is that any woman who is over 25 and not a Playmate that gets hit on, must mean the guy thinks she is worthless and only good for sex. And I know for a fact that even really hot girls... my gorgeous indian friend who is only 29 gets catcalls. I also know that when she was single, she is married now, that guys that dated her sometimes only wanted sex with her and no relationship. I get catcalls as well sometimes, and while not super hot, I'm pretty cute but hardly look like a tramp.
vonerik012 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-20070622-000002.xml Studies demonstrate unequivocally that men are far more interested in short-term casual sex than women. In one now-classic study, 75 percent of undergraduate men approached by an attractive female stranger agreed to have sex with her; none of the women approached by an attractive male stranger did. Many men who would not date the stranger nonetheless agreed to have sex with her.
Author porter218 Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Why do you say middleaged, as if there is no way a man wouldn't want to date her? Sorry but you are an *******. Just to clarify any misrepresentation here. I am only 29..look about 22. And vonerik, just FYI I actually do not care what it was they wanted from me because I wanted nothing to do with them. You seem to be trying to draw a picture of me hoping these men want to date me and take care of my kids *LMOA*. Very much not the case here.
vonerik012 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Porter, you seemed to be asking why these men were hitting on you. I answered it. I did not get the impression you wanted to date them at all.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Studies demonstrate unequivocally that men are far more interested in short-term casual sex than women. In one now-classic study, 75 percent of undergraduate men approached by an attractive female stranger agreed to have sex with her; none of the women approached by an attractive male stranger did. Many men who would not date the stranger nonetheless agreed to have sex with her. I have no doubt men are more willing for indiscriminate sex then women. But the assertions you make are not all to gether logical. You pull bits and pieces from this study here and that study over there and and you combined it to make it the "truth", when it's mearly you twisting it all around .
vonerik012 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 The truth is obvious. just finding evidence for those who do not fully embrace or understand it.
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