whichwayisup Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 What the hell, do men just not care if a woman is pregnant or not?? Obviously you're giving off the beautiful and loving glow many pregnant woman have while carrying their baby inside of them. Take it as a compliment!
whichwayisup Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Those men are very horny, and maybe you look poor and easy. T shirt, gym shorts, kids, etc. Maybe you have a body part that was accentuated with those clothes. WTF?????????????????? I'm stunned on this part..WTF!!!!!!! I'm actually laughing, but more out of shock that someone would actually say this, let alone believe it.
Author porter218 Posted August 27, 2008 Author Posted August 27, 2008 Were you wearing a wedding band? They probably checked out your hand first. I realize you may be a little swollen from pregnancy and took it off, but some guys don't realize that. No my hands aren't swollen Still got a huge rock on my finger.
Author porter218 Posted August 27, 2008 Author Posted August 27, 2008 actually i've never heard of men hitting more on pregnant women....i would think most would run the other way Yeah, that is totally what I thought.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 OK... So men driving by on the street, or at the gas station were thinking about what when they hit on her? Realistically.... What drove them to approach her? They were thinking... A. Wow, she is beautiful, and I would like to take this pregnant woman out and make her my girlfriend? B. I am thinking she might want to have sex.. Single mom, can't get pregnant,or some other type of fantasy? C. She mentioned she was wearing a t shirt, gym shorts, and no make up. For many men, this type of woman appears to be "easier", than if she was wearing a business suit. So instead of ripping my post, offer your actual ideas as to why they hit on her, and what they wanted.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 OK... So men driving by on the street, or at the gas station were thinking about what when they hit on her? Realistically.... What drove them to approach her? They were thinking... A. Wow, she is beautiful, and I would like to take this pregnant woman out and make her my girlfriend? B. I am thinking she might want to have sex.. Single mom, can't get pregnant,or some other type of fantasy? C. She mentioned she was wearing a t shirt, gym shorts, and no make up. For many men, this type of woman appears to be "easier", than if she was wearing a business suit. So instead of ripping my post, offer your actual ideas as to why they hit on her, and what they wanted. So I must look really easy when I'm leaving the gym! After all, I'm wearing t-shirt, shorts, and no makeup. C'mon, Von. It is so painfully obvious that you are using each and every post as a chance to take a swipe at women. The subject doesn't really matter. We can all see that.
Author porter218 Posted August 27, 2008 Author Posted August 27, 2008 OK... So men driving by on the street, or at the gas station were thinking about what when they hit on her? Realistically.... What drove them to approach her? They were thinking... A. Wow, she is beautiful, and I would like to take this pregnant woman out and make her my girlfriend? B. I am thinking she might want to have sex.. Single mom, can't get pregnant,or some other type of fantasy? C. She mentioned she was wearing a t shirt, gym shorts, and no make up. For many men, this type of woman appears to be "easier", than if she was wearing a business suit. So instead of ripping my post, offer your actual ideas as to why they hit on her, and what they wanted. That was just 2 of them. The first one was in a restaurant ordering his food. When I walked by him with my son to leave he first spoke to my son. And when he saw me walk out the door he dropped what he was doing to follow me and stopped me to ask if I was dating anyone or was I single.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Cherry, instead of ripping my ideas, why don't you come up with your own? An actual answer, instead of some fake feel good nicety that makes no logical sense. How is it a swipe at women? Dudes hitting on pregnant women isn't exactly saying much for men. What were the men thinking of? And why did it happen so often when she had no make up, just a t shirt and shorts?
whichwayisup Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I think you're implying she's looking like white trash, atleast that's how it seems to me. Pregnant, with another child, in tshirt and shorts, no make-up...You're implying she's poor and slutty.
Author porter218 Posted August 27, 2008 Author Posted August 27, 2008 I think you're implying she's looking like white trash, atleast that's how it seems to me. Pregnant, with another child, in tshirt and shorts, no make-up...You're implying she's poor and slutty. That is what I gathered from his post. I took no offense however because I know that wasn't the case. I can't look like white trash if I tried...I may have been dressed down and no makeup but I still looked classy. I am a model..I know not to step out of the door looking trashy or cheap.
Jilly Bean Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 See.. another 'where-I-live' post.. I really don't know where you live but it's weird over there.. .. cheap classless women at 'your' bar, strange people in your town dude.. LOL. Porter - I think you must look so amazing and so happy and radiant being pregnant, that men are responding to you even though they know you are off-limits! I think people can SEE happiness swirling around people. I know that energy comes off on your posts, so in person, even in your "white trash easy and poor" outfit (HILARIOUS!!!), bouncing out of the Jag with your runway walk, men are vibing on your interior and exterior beauty. You just keep on truckin, girl! And I LOVED your description of your pregnancy. Reminded me of how sexy I felt when I was pregnant by my ex.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 How can she be offended when I have no idea what she looks like? Secondly, do any of you women have the answer then? Why? Whats the reason that men are pulling over, and hitting on her everywhere today? They want to take out a woman who is pregnant and has another kid with her for a relationship?
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 They are probably just admiring her. She looks beautiful. She is glowing. She is a model, for chrissakes! Asking if she is single is just a way of saying that they find her attractive. They probably aren't looking for a relationships with her, but do you honestly think they are asking her to have sex with them? Yeah, right. Some dude is going to ask a Jaguar driving pregnant model to have sex with them in the gas station bathroom. Sounds like a likely explanation.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 This is what I find amusing.. Nobody has any real answer, other than to bash me and my more accurate answer. So men of the low moral character that would be hitting on PREGNANT women, WHILE SHE IS WITH ANOTHER CHILD, are thinking pure thoughts of beauty emanating from her, while she has no make up on, a t shirt, and gym shorts while pumping gas...?? lol yeah cherry lol They are asking "are you single" by accident, and they meant to say "You look nice" lol Such gentlemen yelling things out there car at her.. They really showed a lot of respect..
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 7 months pregnant, no make up, another kid with her, t shirt, and gym shorts... thats what men find stunning? And yes, men think of sex every 7 seconds.. thats the types of things they think about if they see a woman that looks easy.
rod_in_gtown Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I can't speak for other men nor do I believe I have a preggers fetish but If I see a beautiful woman and she happens to be pregnant, she's still beautiful in my eyes. I have to say the best sex that I had with my ex-wife was definitely when she was pregnant. Her sex drive was through the roof and the libido had never been higher. Now as far as hitting on a pregnant woman who is walking aroung with her other son and with a large engagement ring and wedding band, is another story. But no, pregnant doesn't mean taken to us.
Ocean-Blue Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I can't for the life of me understand what is up with guys today. I am 7 months pregnant and with my 3 year old today and men are hitting on me left and right. I am freakin confused. I just a have a t-shirt and gym shorts on and no makeup, and I am pregnant for god sakes. A man followed me and my son out of a restaurant to ask if I was dating anyone, um no I am happily married....with my Hs daughter in my belly:confused:. And it doesn't even end there....I get out of my car to get gas at a gas station and while I am standing there one man leans out of his car to wave at me and some compliment I could barely hear because he was driving...then 1 minute later another does the same thing. What the hell, do men just not care if a woman is pregnant or not?? I mean I always thought that men thought of pregnant women as 'off the market' am I wrong? It all just seems so out of the blue today. I feel like hiding in my house until men get their sense back. I guess my question is do men really just not care if a woman is pregnant or not? Is it just not a huge deterrent to see a woman is with child?? Enlighten me please. Porter, I don't mean to be a b1tch, but methinks the lady doth protest too much.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Yes, I have seen beautiful pregnant women. The question is why are strange men A. Yelling out the car window at her. B. Asking if she is single. Here is your answer... For the clueless ladies on LS... http://channels.isp.netscape.com/men/package.jsp?name=fte/thinkaboutsex/thinkaboutsex&floc=wn-nx Think that's a lot? It's nothing if neuropsychiatrist Dr. Louann Brizendine, author of "The Female Brain," is correct. She writes in her book that men think about sex every 52 seconds, while women tend to think of it just once a day. If men are thinking about sex more frequently than once a minute, how do they get any work done? Blame it on a society that is bombarded with subconscious erotic images. ABC News reports that researchers at the University of Minnesota concluded that sexy subliminal images competed for attention in the human brain even when those images were not right in front of the person's eyes. Weirdly, most people are not even consciously aware of them! Brizendine says the huge disparity in the frequency that men and women think about sex is the result of basic neurological differences. Because of hormone levels at different stages of life, the male and female brains are built differently, which in turn makes us think and act differently. Even if women aren't thinking about sex as frequently as men, they are thinking about their sex appeal. In addition, women never forget a fight, a romantic encounter or a tender moment, asserts Brizendine in an interview with The Washington Post. She says a woman's strengths are in conflict resolution, deep friendship and the ability to read moods. "There is no unisex brain," Brizendine told Post reporter William Booth. "It follows these two brain models can produce quite different behaviors." Blame it all on hormones. A man's body is bathed in testosterone, which accounts for those sexy thoughts once every 52 seconds. A woman? "The female brain is so affected by hormones, they control her very perception of reality," she explained. "Her values, her desires, what's important to her, even whom she loves."
almost famous Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 7 months pregnant, no make up, another kid with her, t shirt, and gym shorts... thats what men find stunning? And yes, men think of sex every 7 seconds.. thats the types of things they think about if they see a woman that looks easy. How are gym shorts and a t shirt saying "I'm easy." You're a dumbass, sorry.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Almost, answer the thread... What is your answer? Like everyone else you do not have one? No, they were yelling out their cars at her because she looked like she was the type that would shoot them down immediately.lol
Ocean-Blue Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Almost, answer the thread... What is your answer? Like everyone else you do not have one? Funny how you fell for this thread and responded seriously. Anyone who complains of this BS is quite obviously seeking some kind of validation. On the freakin' internet too. Unless a man is pawing at you and being totally inappropriate and gross, most women enjoy male attention. To say otherwise is an outright bullcrap LIE.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Yes,, She is probably posting for some type of validation. So all the other women can say "Well its because you are sooo beautiful, you are glowing, and all the men on Earth want you even though you are pregnant, and have another kid with you. You are a model and have a jaguar! " If it really did happen, which is not hard to believe, it is because of the exact reason I said. Horny men driving around looking for easy prey. Do they really want to date a pregnant woman and raise her 2 kids? Do they even think she is single? Of course not. Can there be any bigger of a sign that someone is taken?
Ocean-Blue Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Yes,, She is probably posting for some type of validation. So all the other women can say "Well its because you are sooo beautiful, you are glowing, and all the men on Earth want you even though you are pregnant, and have another kid with you. You are a model and have a jaguar! " If it really did happen, which is not hard to believe, it is because of the exact reason I said. Horny men driving around looking for easy prey. Do they really want to date a pregnant woman and raise her 2 kids? Do they even think she is single? Of course not. Can there be any bigger of a sign that someone is taken? You don't give the ladies enough credit. Go back and re-read previous posts.
vonerik012 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Ok, the first time I read that I did not pick up on the sarcasm...lol
almost famous Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 Almost, answer the thread... What is your answer? Like everyone else you do not have one? No, they were yelling out their cars at her because she looked like she was the type that would shoot them down immediately.lol They find her attractive, and they are a bit classless.
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