porter218 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 I can't for the life of me understand what is up with guys today. I am 7 months pregnant and with my 3 year old today and men are hitting on me left and right. I am freakin confused. I just a have a t-shirt and gym shorts on and no makeup, and I am pregnant for god sakes. A man followed me and my son out of a restaurant to ask if I was dating anyone, um no I am happily married....with my Hs daughter in my belly:confused:. And it doesn't even end there....I get out of my car to get gas at a gas station and while I am standing there one man leans out of his car to wave at me and some compliment I could barely hear because he was driving...then 1 minute later another does the same thing. What the hell, do men just not care if a woman is pregnant or not?? I mean I always thought that men thought of pregnant women as 'off the market' am I wrong? It all just seems so out of the blue today. I feel like hiding in my house until men get their sense back. I guess my question is do men really just not care if a woman is pregnant or not? Is it just not a huge deterrent to see a woman is with child?? Enlighten me please.
Alma Mobley Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Ouch, that doesn't sound pleasant. There are definitely men out there who get turned on by pregnant women -- you have heard of this, no?
vonerik012 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Those men are very horny, and maybe you look poor and easy. T shirt, gym shorts, kids, etc. Maybe you have a body part that was accentuated with those clothes. I am not saying the above to be mean, thats just what it is. They are not thinking they want to date you and take care of your 2 kids..
Author porter218 Posted August 26, 2008 Author Posted August 26, 2008 Those men are very horny, and maybe you look poor and easy. T shirt, gym shorts, kids, etc. Maybe you have a body part that was accentuated with those clothes. I am not saying the above to be mean, thats just what it is. They are not thinking they want to date you and take care of your 2 kids.. LOL... I think the new Jaguar may have taken that idea away.
Tomcat33 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Those men are very horny, and maybe you look poor and easy. . Ok that was funny. Porter you sound like you looked hot and I've heard from many men that they get turned on by pregnant women.
vonerik012 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Ok, then just easy, or maybe as the maid for a rich person whose care you are using. Men think of sex every 7 seconds.. They hit on women in public that obviously if they think there is some type of chance of easy sex. ironically, if you were all dressed up this would be less likely to happen.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Yeah in the two seconds he saw an attractive female, pregnant or not, he was formulating a whole storyboard about how she is the maid. Oh for god sakes. Men like the maid anyway. Remember, they don't care if we are educated or if we have money.
Author porter218 Posted August 26, 2008 Author Posted August 26, 2008 Ok that was funny. Porter you sound like you looked hot and I've heard from many men that they get turned on by pregnant women. I guess I have never heard that before. It just caught me off guard.
Author porter218 Posted August 26, 2008 Author Posted August 26, 2008 Yeah in the two seconds he saw an attractive female, pregnant or not, he was formulating a whole storyboard about how she is the maid. Oh for god sakes. Men like the maid anyway. Remember, they don't care if we are educated or if we have money. I know right:lmao:. vonerik cracks me up.
Alma Mobley Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Poor and easy? LOL. Seriously, it's a kind of fetish. Don't ask me to explain the psychology behind it, hehe. But then again, maybe you just look hot!
Jersey Shortie Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Wow, does the ethnic backround of the guy hitting on her really matter?
vonerik012 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Where I live I see black guys pulled over hitting on every woman that walks down the street. Seem to generally be more aggressive in that way.."hey baby hey baby come here.."
Author porter218 Posted August 26, 2008 Author Posted August 26, 2008 Black guys? White guys? Both .. what a silly question..why does one race have more of a preggers fetish then the other??
Lizzie60 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 I can't for the life of me understand what is up with guys today. I am 7 months pregnant and with my 3 year old today and men are hitting on me left and right. I am freakin confused. I just a have a t-shirt and gym shorts on and no makeup, and I am pregnant for god sakes. A man followed me and my son out of a restaurant to ask if I was dating anyone, um no I am happily married....with my Hs daughter in my belly:confused:. And it doesn't even end there....I get out of my car to get gas at a gas station and while I am standing there one man leans out of his car to wave at me and some compliment I could barely hear because he was driving...then 1 minute later another does the same thing. What the hell, do men just not care if a woman is pregnant or not?? I mean I always thought that men thought of pregnant women as 'off the market' am I wrong? It all just seems so out of the blue today. I feel like hiding in my house until men get their sense back. I guess my question is do men really just not care if a woman is pregnant or not? Is it just not a huge deterrent to see a woman is with child?? Enlighten me please. Some men get turned on big time by pregnant women.. A few years ago, I was on a phone chat line.. and one guy, in his ad, was asking for a pregnant woman.. he said that was his fantasy.. Oh well..it takes all kind of people.. I personally think a pregnant woman is sooooo beautiful..
Lizzie60 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Where I live I see black guys pulled over hitting on every woman that walks down the street. Seem to generally be more aggressive in that way.."hey baby hey baby come here.." See.. another 'where-I-live' post.. I really don't know where you live but it's weird over there.. .. cheap classless women at 'your' bar, strange people in your town dude..
Lizzie60 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Those men are very horny, and maybe you look poor and easy. T shirt, gym shorts, kids, etc. Maybe you have a body part that was accentuated with those clothes. I am not saying the above to be mean, thats just what it is. They are not thinking they want to date you and take care of your 2 kids.. Wow.. just WOW!!!!
Author porter218 Posted August 26, 2008 Author Posted August 26, 2008 Where I live I see black guys pulled over hitting on every woman that walks down the street. Seem to generally be more aggressive in that way.."hey baby hey baby come here.." That just sounds more like men picking up street walkers to me.
refurb Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 They're probably thinking "She pregnant, so at least I know she puts out!". RF
jadedone Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Were you wearing a wedding band? They probably checked out your hand first. I realize you may be a little swollen from pregnancy and took it off, but some guys don't realize that.
trubella Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 some men have a preggo fetish, i used to get that alot when i was preggi with ds. i think its a combination of seeing a fertile woman, who has a bulge and bigger boobs, not to mention in their minds its the ultimate birth control not having to worry about getting u preg since u already are. their definitely not looking at you as dating potential. some guys thinks preggos are hotter, or the sex would be hotter. {i did my research after being hit on a thousands times while preggo} lol
Jersey Shortie Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 They're probably thinking "She pregnant, so at least I know she puts out!". RF that made me laugh.
Alma Mobley Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 BTW, the characterization of black men was racist, sorry, I had to say it.
alphamale Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 I guess my question is do men really just not care if a woman is pregnant or not? Is it just not a huge deterrent to see a woman is with child?? Enlighten me please. actually i've never heard of men hitting more on pregnant women....i would think most would run the other way
StartingOver07 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 I am not saying the above to be mean, thats just what it is. They are not thinking they want to date you and take care of your 2 kids.. Shhhh... don't look now but I married my 2nd husband when I had 2 small children AND he is younger than I am AND I have a college degree. I know, I know... not where you live! Porter - maybe you just looked good, kwim? Pregnant women can look good, too.
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