scottk51 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 About a month ago me and my ex broke up for good and we haven't said a word to each other since. I'm not going to lie, i admit that i'm hurt, but not as bad as i was 3 months ago when we first starting having problems. I loved her so it's obvious for me to feel for the way i do for her. My problem is i'm having trouble killing that feeling for good. I'll be fine then i'll see something that reminded me of her and all of a sudden I start thinking about the good times we had (prom, the beach, ect.) I can't help but miss her. I usually counter this by realizing what kind of person she is now, and all the wrongs she did to me, and the way she treated me towards the end of our relationship. I want to know some of your guy's ways of dealing with this, I'm currently talking and hanging out with another girl but I haven't really connecting with her yet so it's hard. Could this not connecting thing also just be me getting over my ex gradually but surely? Any advice, and even if you guy's could share some experiences too, that'd be awesome. Thanks alot
kchiapet95 Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 My advice would be to take your time. I know it sounds cliche, but time really does heal. It hurts less 3 months out than it did right after the breakup and it will hurt less and less the farther away you get from it. I thought I'd never get over my first love, and I did eventually. I can even look back on it with fondness. My last ex, it was a painful, bitter breakup, and we don't speak either. It's been 8 months since then, and believe me, the thoughts of him are few and far between now, but they are still there. It will take time. Don't deny your feelings, and don't try to rush the healing process.
Author scottk51 Posted August 26, 2008 Author Posted August 26, 2008 thanks alot, that makes me feel better knowing that i'm not the only one that dealt with this
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