Byren Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 I have a HUGE problem with over thinking things... Currently things are starting to get a little serious between a friend and me, I should add that we've known each other for 2 years and get along REALLY well, there's actually no one that I get along with better than her. So anyway, since things have been getting a little heavy I've starting over thinking AND due to this I think I'm starting to act differently around her (could be the over thinking, but who the hell knows...) and to make things worse a good friend of ours asked her out recently but she said no... he doesn't know about anything we've done or said to each other yet though... She's away for a week and she texts both of us (we all live in the same house together) but I'm constantly feeling jealous and thinking that she's losing interest in me while she's away with her family. She even ended one of her texts with "misin u. x" which gave me such a high until i started THINKING about it deeply, coming up with stupid little reasons as to why she doesn't mean it. Does any one have any coping methods? I feel that my over thinking is going to end our relationship before it's even begun, and that's the last thing I want. She's the most amazing friend I have and i want it to be more, but if I screw this over then I fear that the friendship will take a mighty blow too...
Suiyobi Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 It's easier said than done but you'll just need to refrain from overthinking things next time. You'll have to trust this girl and you'll have to gain some confidence in yourself. Just relax man, otherwise it's like what you said, your overthinking is going to end your relationship before it's even begun.
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