JoeNewbie Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 I work with this hot girl that every man in the office wants to have sex with. She is slim, has a nice face and big breasts. However, she is married with three kids. We eventually start going for one-on-one lunches. She tells me about her problems at home and often mentions her husband. After about 4-5 lunches, we go for dinner (nothing happens). And then another dinner (still nothing). Eventually, she tells me she likes me but since she is not free, we should remain friends only. Does it seem like she's interested?
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 She's married with 3 kids, it's irrelevant.
LionLover Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Does it seem like she's interested? OMG you both need to be smacked.
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 I had all the wrong vibes from this one. - She said the word "friends" - She never flirted with me - She never took the lead But guess what? Signs can be misleading...
Tony T Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Behind every married woman who's slim, has a nice face and big breasts is often a husband who is sick and tired of her. The lady is needing a tinge of excitement away from the ranch but she is wanting a pony ride, not a rodeo. She's probably needing a little comic relief but she's probably not going the entire route, at least not at this time. My opinion is she got what she wants from you and now, if you will be her friend, she will have access to you to meet those needs in the future. I don't think it's a good idea to bank on the possibility she will want to jump your bones anytime soon.
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 This situation actually happened many years ago. And the reason why I posted it is to show everyone how signs and rules can be misleading. I thought I was in for some casual sex but within one week, she dumped her husband. The rest was a disaster but for a few months I had the hottest and most exciting sex I've ever had in my entire life.
JohnnyBlaze Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 From my experience, it's neglect of sorts. 9 out of 10 have a hubby, a kid or two, a nice car, a dog named Sparky or a cat named Fluffy and a decent place to call home. Their husbands see them as beautiful women, but that look of hot lust is gone. That 10th chick will cross the line, but she's the exception, not the norm. Most just like to flirt - they'll toe the line, but not cross it. They do it to prove to themselves that they are still desirable, sexy babes. I've dealt with one of the nine, and I've dealt with the tenth. The tenth may be 100x more fun, but the problems are magnified by an equal amount. All in all, I can't say it's worth it.
Balthazar Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 This situation actually happened many years ago. And the reason why I posted it is to show everyone how signs and rules can be misleading. I thought I was in for some casual sex but within one week, she dumped her husband. The rest was a disaster but for a few months I had the hottest and most exciting sex I've ever had in my entire life. Actually, I was going to tell you that all the signs were there. It was clear to me that she was going to hump you. She went out to dinner with you and told you that you can only be friends. WHat other signs do you need? That having been said, don't look for dating rules carved in stone. Things can go one way... or another...
mortensorchid Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 No no. Stay away from this situation. She's married and has 3 kids. End of story. Resist whatever you feel.
Citizen Erased Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 Behind every married woman who's slim, has a nice face and big breasts is often a husband who is sick and tired of her. :lmao: Well thanks for wasting our time by reading this Joe, but interesting anyway.
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