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Corinne

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I had been devastated for a few months after my husband just decided to leave. I did all the good stuff advised here and on other forums and had 2 whole weeks of NC, then I needed some photos that he had for my website. He looked through all our old pics and realised what a long history we had (7 years) and how much fun we had had in that time :) He then realised how sad and lonely he was and that we really are soul mates, or that we are each others best friends, we talked a lot and went out for dinner a couple of times and just before my vacation to Ireland we became intimate :D

 

While I was away I got lots of lovely texts from him and I fell back in Love with my husband :D

 

Yesterday was our 6th wedding anniversary and he took me to the church we were wed in and asked the priest to bless us and put our wedding rings back on :)

 

We are not living together at the moment, will see how things go but things are lovely :) and maybe sometimes there is a happy ending :)

 

 

Thanks for all the wise words on here, it was a great help and hopefully I will not have to go to the breakup forum again lol but I must say that it was a good experience I learnt a lot about myself and would do it again .... apart from the agony lol

 

Good Luck n Love to you all xxx

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God Bless you both! Good Luck!

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That's very nice. Good Luck to you both.

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Thank you so much for sharing and the very best of luck to you guys!

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I am in the same boat... wife left me.. things are rekindling...same time frame and all

 

I hope to be able to join the ranks of the "rekindled" soon!

 

Inspiring indeed!

 

 

I wish you all the best, and that you may have many happy times coming up!

 

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corrine that is great news... so happy for you both xx

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corrine that is great news... so happy for you both xx

 

 

So glad you read this Sultry :) was going to PM you. Its still strange and the issues are still there but we are working on them :) the way I see it is you have to work on yourself through your life, with the challenges life throws at you but if you invest a few years getting to know someone you should stick with it, if you both can, cos its a lot harder work getting to know someone else and explaining to them all that history, so you might as well put the work into each other so you have time to work on yourself .... does that make sense ?? lol

 

Hope things are good for you hun and the pain has eased and you are right out there partying and enjoying life :D

 

Good Luck and I hope your next Love is a keeper ;) x x x

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I am in the same boat... wife left me.. things are rekindling...same time frame and all

 

I hope to be able to join the ranks of the "rekindled" soon!

 

Inspiring indeed!

 

 

I wish you all the best, and that you may have many happy times coming up!

 

df

 

 

All the best to you too! Hope you have built a nice warm fire with your 'rekindling' ;)

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So glad you read this Sultry :) was going to PM you. Its still strange and the issues are still there but we are working on them :) the way I see it is you have to work on yourself through your life, with the challenges life throws at you but if you invest a few years getting to know someone you should stick with it, if you both can, cos its a lot harder work getting to know someone else and explaining to them all that history, so you might as well put the work into each other so you have time to work on yourself .... does that make sense ?? lol

 

Hope things are good for you hun and the pain has eased and you are right out there partying and enjoying life :D

 

Good Luck and I hope your next Love is a keeper ;) x x x

 

hi corrine,

yea i know what you mean.. it takes 2 and it takes time but if you both are going tackle it then its a big bonus.. realising mistakes.. flaws is the key eh;)

it took me a long time to tell my ex my life before him and im certain in time with someone else id be able to but hell yea it be scary..

 

i am indeed out there partyin and all that jazz but not dating or anything.. realised im not ready and im not actually that bothered lol

 

my friends have given up tryin fix me up which is great..

now they fend the guys off for me lol

 

i did break nc couple weeks ago and i have seen him..

he is not my life priority anymore but i still have him deep in my heart so am going with the flow... is a drip atm lol but what will be will be..

 

im on lots of datin sites but i dont even go there now.. guess im happy being on my own.. do get a sad feeling now an then but its not as intense as it was..

 

my youngest is starting secondary school today so soon i be able to reflect on my life a bit more as i now realise

i need to change too not for my ex but just because i need too..

 

im ok seeing him now an then and it actually suits us both..

 

im really glad things are working out for you.. i remember your 1st posts.. we was willing you to go nc

guess it worked..

 

pm me anytime xx

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