scold2886 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Me and my Ex were dating for 4 years. We broke up in july and it's just been a crazy breakup,to the point she change her number and haven't talk to her or sent her emails in two weeks now. Kinda using the nc method i guess but I got to go in town next week where she lives and thinking about stoping by the house to see if she will talk to me. I got more questions then anwsers since we broke up. I love this girl with all my heart and care for her so much but at this point i think she hates me and want's nothing to do with me,also i think she dating this new guy from what everyone has told me. Since we broke up she has talked to me lil to none she just walked out the door and that was it all i got was i was sick of it but what i dont get is what she was sick of i did everything for her why she sat home and did nothing the only thing is that we just stred fighing alot because i was so stressed from work.So next week when i'm in town should i go by the house and try talking to her or just let it be for now i'm so confused at this point. PLEASE HELP AND THANKS
journey1 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Move on and leave her alone. You said all you could and at this point there is nothing left to say. Questions will never be answered for you right now. Leave her be and if she wants you I think she will remember how to get in touch with you. Its terrible and its hard to pass time but you need to and she is
xpaperxcutx Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 So I'm guessing you're expecting a warm welcome from her at the door? I think that's you being delusional. If she has cut you from her life entirely ( hence changing her number) then it's only obvious you do the same and cut her from your life. No, you can't drop by her house, she would think you're stalking her. From her unresponsive behavior, it's evident that she doesn't really want any contact to or from you, so if you visit her, she will probably a) not answer the door or b) call the cops.
BCCA Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 "Im sick of it" "Im just not happy" "Its just not meant to be/ we arent the ones for each other" Those are all BS lines people give so they dont have to tell the truth and risk looking like a bitch. It comes down to a basic point that I HATED to hear, but rang truer than anything: shes just not that into you. If she wanted to be with you, she would be. If she wont even answer your calls, she doesnt even feel sorry enough to say 'hi'. I think you need to walk from this and let it go. Actions speak louder than words, and her actions are all saying "leave me alone". Will she change her mind some day? Honestly, as some one who has been dumped enough times, sometimes they come back, but always too late. Work out, date, hang with friends, call family...do whatever it takes to get by for a couple months and clear your head. There were days I litterally took one SECOND at a time, but I managed. You dont want some one who doesnt want you. It will never lead to anything but pain.
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