Jamesith Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 so I've been away for a good 3 months if that,well Texas was great met a lot of girls but the instant I was there for oh 2 weeks...I get a text message from my best friend.I haven't talked to her in a while so I answer and we start to talk about us seeing other people.So i had said nope my singleness is still available,where as she says she was talking with someone but ended the talking with him cause he was a player/jerk off and was talking with 3 other girls as well.So a week later I get another text from her and we got to the same topic again and she had then start to tell me she totally wants a boyfriend but she wants it to be a good one. So i felt like I was nothing cause here I was a good guy and everything and to hear that now its like damn.So I ended up writing 2 songs which are pretty well written:o and in hopes it would show her I was still interested in her. Well I don't know what to think about this so any advice or anything would be helpful cause I've been gone and missed getting help and talking to you guys.
nopainnogain Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Whats your history with this girl. ? Sounds like something can happen here if you play your cards right/
Author Jamesith Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 Her and I went to the same high school this year for our senior year and we've both graduated,if you need to know anything else feel free to ask cause if what you say might happen then ill take that chance.
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Hey, you're her best friend, why don't you help her find a good guy boyfriend? That's what friends do right?
Author Jamesith Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 Well i know she cares about me a lot and that i can definitely see,I mean through knowing her this whole year and one month its shown.But if your talking about "feelings" i wouldn't know cause we only recently just started to get back in contact with each other through text.
Author Jamesith Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 I agree with what your saying commitment,and yes I could do that for her but its like I've been that good guy all along this year and to hear that now is like wow such bad timing i guess IMO.
nopainnogain Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Just be even kiel. Dont get to high on a high or to low on a low. She sounds cool so play cool. Make her feel special without being pressured.
Author Jamesith Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 Yeah I've been doing what you said about making her feel special,but i do in barely cause its like you said i'd feel like i was pressuring myself.And yeah that's something i will continue to work on with the highs and lows. If anyone else wants to jump in and say something that would be very awesome any other advice would be helpful whether its good or bad.thanks =]
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