flc Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 So I started dating a new women about a month ago. We get along quite well and have seen each other 3-4 days every week since we met. A lot of cuddling time and she spent the night at my place. So now I am starting to get emotional involved and the doubts start. Is this going to work? Am I going to get crushed by her? blah, blah blah When things go well I always end up getting doubts. I am pretty sure this is just lack of self confidence but it is hard to overcome. I don't want to put any pressure on the relationship, it has only been a month, but I hate this feeling. Anyone else have this problem, how do you overcome it?
Suiyobi Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Maybe you just need to have some serious talks with this girl. Hopefully that'll lessen your doubts and insecurities? So I started dating a new women about a month ago. We get along quite well and have seen each other 3-4 days every week since we met. A lot of cuddling time and she spent the night at my place. So now I am starting to get emotional involved and the doubts start. Is this going to work? Am I going to get crushed by her? blah, blah blah When things go well I always end up getting doubts. I am pretty sure this is just lack of self confidence but it is hard to overcome. I don't want to put any pressure on the relationship, it has only been a month, but I hate this feeling. Anyone else have this problem, how do you overcome it?
nopainnogain Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 just go with the flow man .keep the upper hand
Author flc Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 I am sure that is the case but after only a month it seems a bit early to have 'serious' discussions. My feeling is to just settle down and try to make sure rational thought overcomes irrational. I just hate the way my emotions can overcome my wisdom.
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