Arsenic_Child Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Hello All, I'm sure most of you have read my situation, if not here it is. and feel free to shed some light on it. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t162066/ Anyway, Today I broke NC, My ex MSNed me to go work out at her Uncles Gym, i was kinda hesitant because of the NC but i did end up going with her. we had a good time, we laughed and flirted with each other, but dont know if anything good came out of it. After wards, i asked her if she wanted to go grab a bite to eat after she went to go shower. she said she would let me know, and turns out she didnt end up coming because her Mother was ordering food for them. But now she IMs me and texts me since then, what should i do guys? I want to keep in contact to earn her back, but at the same time im afraid its worthless.
nowhereman82 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 I say follow the same advice they all gave you in the post you linked. Ultimately though do what makes you happy but realize that every choice can have a consequence. So determine if it's worth it and if you are willing to deal with the worse case scenario....then you have your answer. Best of luck
0hpenelope Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Be vigilant. Be realistic. I hope she's not leading you on.
Author Arsenic_Child Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 I say follow the same advice they all gave you in the post you linked. Ultimately though do what makes you happy but realize that every choice can have a consequence. So determine if it's worth it and if you are willing to deal with the worse case scenario....then you have your answer. Best of luck Yeah, honestly, i dont know what to do, because i think good might come out of it, but some of me is saying to just say screw it, and i really dont know what to do
journey1 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 you already messed up by asking her to eat. Wasnt working out with her enough??? Why do you have to push your luck. The key is to be unavailable until she shows you she wants you back!!!!!!! You have a better chance than most of us, dont let us down by being an eager beaver. RELAX AND STAY CONFIDENT!!!
Author Arsenic_Child Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 so then next time should i just tell her i cant im busy?
journey1 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 exactly, pretend your busy for a few weeks, maybe see her once a week if that!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to act as if your new life without her is just as packed and fulfilling as it was with her in it!!!
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