sao2 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 So me and the ex talked yesterday. Turns out we are both visiting the same city this weekend. We may get lunch, we may not. Depends on her schedule if she ends up going and if she feels comfortable with it. Interesting that she was surprised that I was going, I usually make this trip every labor day and she knows that. We left things open. Anyways, it was o.k. I still miss her, I still love her. I even still want to work things out with her. At the same time, that overwhelming desire I feel for her is gone. I no longer feel like I "need" her. It is ok. I hope we see each other but if we don't then we don't. Have I moved on, I am not sure. I am at least finding myself attracted to other women again, for the first time in a long time. I really and truly believe that if the distance between us were not an issue we would be figuring things out between us. We would be together. Unfortunately the distance between us was too much for us to deal with. Anyways, this is a mark of progress in my mind.
nopainnogain Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 correct me if im wrong but is this the same chick that cheated on you with a friend of yours??
Author sao2 Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 Nope, you are thinking of someone else. I have actually dodged the cheating bullet thus far.
breakupunderachiever Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 hmmmn. i would say that the first part of your post suggests that you may not be as easygoing about this meeting as you say. i think the main thing is just approach with care. care for yourself that is. it is difficult to see an ex you are still in love with and want to be with and not have it be a major backward step. of course, you are gonna do what you are gonna do, and that pull can be really strong sometimes. just...exercise...care...
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