SourKisses Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Last night my boyfriend bought up the topic of names, mostly names and initials he wants to give to future children. I found it a bit bizzare but since I find names so interesting, I found it fun to talk to him about it. He started off with saying well the first child will have the intials would be CCC, then if it was a girl he would name the child Daisy and for the last child, it will be have the following initals EBC. Which is his initials. I thought it was great fun to look through a baby name book and picking and swapping names together. Thing is we are dating, there isn't any plans for a child in the near future so I found it a bit bizzare that he bought it up. Is it cause he is nearly 38. I'm in my mid 20s so I'm guessing he has been looking at settling down. Maybe you guys can give opinions on this strange event.
JoeNewbie Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 How long have you been dating for? Seems like he is hinting at having a baby...
Author SourKisses Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 Well we have known each other for five years, been dating since January. I don't know if he wants a baby, because we had sex a few hours ago and he ejectulated outside of me. When he does ejectulate inside of me it is in my anus and last night after bringing the name subject up, he got annoyed that I didn't want anal sex and told me he felt it better to cum in my anus but when he pulls out it feels like he is just ejectulating not cumming. (Sorry a bit to much info) so that is why it is a strange thing.
JoeNewbie Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Well we have known each other for five years, been dating since January. I don't know if he wants a baby, because we had sex a few hours ago and he ejectulated outside of me. When he does ejectulate inside of me it is in my anus and last night after bringing the name subject up, he got annoyed that I didn't want anal sex and told me he felt it better to cum in my anus but when he pulls out it feels like he is just ejectulating not cumming. (Sorry a bit to much info) so that is why it is a strange thing. Thanks for the chuckles...
Author SourKisses Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 Your welcome lol. But I still find it so odd that we had this conversation and even went through a name book together. Just such a strange event lol. Espeically as it is from him. LOL.
amymarieca Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 My ex boyfriend used to do this with me too. By the end of the relationship I realized that he never wanted a future with me. Usually guys are pretty easy to read, but sometimes they say things that will throw you for a loop. I wouldn't read into this too much. If he really wants to marry you/have a baby with you, he will make it happen. Just let the chips fall where they will and don't over-analyze the situation.
Author SourKisses Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 My ex boyfriend used to do this with me too. By the end of the relationship I realized that he never wanted a future with me. Usually guys are pretty easy to read, but sometimes they say things that will throw you for a loop. I wouldn't read into this too much. If he really wants to marry you/have a baby with you, he will make it happen. Just let the chips fall where they will and don't over-analyze the situation. , I'm not going to look much into it lol. I just wanted to share it. I told him heaps of times that I'm not ready for children at this stage, as I have studies to concentrate on. Also as mentioned that he cums outside of me or when inside it is in my anus. (Sorry a bit to much info).
vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 If you do not want a baby, do you want him to cum inside of you?
Author SourKisses Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 Um no lol, but thanks for asking.
vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 I just wonder, because I dated a woman who stopped taking the pill as soon as we started having sex.. She was not ready for kids, and told me numerous times she is not sure if she wants them.. Then, one day she told me she felt I was never that into her because I did not cum inside, and did not try to get her pregnant...??? You also mention this with your boyfriend..You do not want kids, but then mention that he will not cum inside.. Would you not be angry if he did?
Author SourKisses Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 I wouldn't be angry if he didn't come inside or if he did come inside. I just at the moment to find it bizzarre that he is talking about baby names lol.
vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Well, cumming inside leads to pregnancy.. So you are telling him you do not want kids, but you are open to becoming pregnant?
Author SourKisses Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 I don't want children at present, as I said I'm studying but I'm still keeping options opened. But it was a good hour or two looking at names and seeing which ones he likes.
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