DD25 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 My girlfriend and I were together for 17months. It was a long distance relationship. Everytime I went to see her it was over 150 miles one way. She was married before our with two children. This made it hard for me because they were not my childern and they didn;t like me cause i wasn't daddy. We fought alot about them and how they should be raised and many other reasons. Then in the last month together she started acting like I was not even around. She would call me when she might have the time, but everytime we hung up she would say "love you". I don't know what happened but then we went to a party and there was a guy there she hadn't seen in awhile. So i let them talk and catch up on things. Then after that she started talking to him more and more. I didn't have the money to go see her one weekend, so she was alone and wanted to invite a friend over..and guess who she invites over. Yup, him the one from the party. I get upset and lose my cool. She got mad and said "Why can't i have guy friends?" So she broke up with me telling me that i don't trust her. About a day later I find out that she is dating this guy now..and he also has children from a previous marrage..I can't believe it. I want her back..is there a chance?
vertigocidic Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 What a vile woman. I'm sorry to say this, but she doesn't love you at all. I bet she wanted the guy to stay over to bump uglies with him, if you get my drift.
BCCA Posted August 26, 2008 Posted August 26, 2008 I'm so sorry man, what a real witch. It's easy to blame yourself for being upset, but when the writing is on the wall that you were right, you need to take solace in the fact that you got out when you did. TRUST ME you are better off without her (which I know right this moment it doesnt seem like it). She was trying to manipulate you into doubting your gut feelings so she could have her cake and eat it, too. Once she saw you were too smart for that crap, she bailed. Even worse, she tried to blame her reason for bailing on you. Here is the situation as I see it. You seem like a good guy with a big heart, and thats easy for people to take advantage of. She may have had feelings for you at one time, but if she's 'hanging out' with this guy friend the one weekend you cant make it out there, she may as well slap you across the face. Its beyond disrespectful, and shows that she is only interested in being selfish. Run, my friend. Get as far away from this as you can. Nothing good can come of this. You've unfortunately met one of the worlds many, many selfish jerks. Dont torture yourself on this, youre better than that.
yongyong Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 She is just meeting someone who's at her level (same person who made mistake about getting married and having children!) She must felt guilty about the fact that you are a single guy and she might ruin your future. you can do nothing at this time. tell her you are happy for her cuz she is with someone at her level
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