soyou Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 I went on three days camping trips with all the new bachelor and master students from my school as I am a new master student. Me (23 yrs old) and a close classmate of mine (24) (I call her Nikki) were put in a group with 5 boys and one more girl aged from 18-19. They are all first year bachelor students. Me and Nikki agreed to tell a lie to everyone about our age. Me was 19 and Nikki was 20. In the beginning, we thought it was just a little lie and we would confess later. However, it went so far. We all in this group clicked into each other so well. We did everything together and all other guys even so exicted to have me as their classmate. They planned to have fun with me, to go out and so on. In general, me and Nikki went so far that could hardly no way to return or to confess without hurting other people. More seriously, one of the guys aged 18 has fallen in love with me at the first sign. He clinged to me and tried his best to get my attention. I even fought with one guy when that guy tried to touch me in the disco. I felt so guilty because I made this little boy suffer because of my lie. If I had not lied abt my age, he would have never fallen in to me. I think he simly thought that I was attractive and only 19 yrs old. No big deal. Age diffrence is so small. (I like him as a friend, but not girlfriend-boyfriend thing. Also, I just see him as my brother since my brother is at his age too). He asked my phone number but I did not give him. He was exicted to see me again when school started in September. I felt so guitly with this little boy. Second, I also felt guilty with all other guys because we had so much fun in the camp and they already planned to form a group with me and Nikki for any subjects that we had to work in group. Here we go, as school starts in abt two weeks, sure I will see them around the school b'cos we belong to the same falcuty. What should I tell them? I want to stay friends with them and really dont want them to think that me and Nikki were not serious and making fun of them. Etc Any ideas, pls give me advices.
FleshNBones Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Be honest next time. It is a lot less hastle.
Green Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Pertending your 19 and 20??? fun I guess, I doubt I could ever pull that off some girl thought I said 44 last time I was trying to say I was 24... any way just laugh it off, be like we played a joke on you I'm actualy 23... its really not the end of the world
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