You ever had a short relationship that took you forever to get over eventhough...

[gummybear]

all your friends and everyone thought it was no big deal? Like for example, you only go out with someone for a few weeks only or the relationship was very short (from few weeks to few short months) but when it ended you were in a huge wreck? Possibly even worse than relationships that ended that lasted for years? If so, why was that? What made THAT relationship that seems so trivial to others so un-trivial to you?

 

Someone told me that he dated someone for a year and got over it in a week whereas this one girl he dated only for a week but took him a year to get over? Isn't love strange?

[nopainnogain]

Yeah,this one chick I met that was from chzeckloslavakia

 

We went out a few times then she went back.It took me awhile to get over because I regretted not kissing her . we went to the mountains and chilled but I didnt make a move. I had no game then.

[D-Lish]

Feelings are most intense in the first phase of the relationship- where your serotonin levels are at their highest... It's the honeymoon phase of a relationship- everything seems perfect and you idealize one another- when that falls apart, it makes sense it will hurt as much as a 6 year relationship.

 

I went out with someone for 2 months- it was awesome and intense. I pushed him away- and we never covered after that. I regret it still- even though it's been months- I still feel pain about that one ending. Heck- I had 3 dates with someone who decided to get back together with his ex... 2 years later I still think about him a lot.

 

I was with someone for 9 years and I almost think these people have been harder for me to forget.

 

It does make sense if you think about it- the first 3 months are when you feel the most intensity...

[LovehateLove]

 

It does make sense if you think about it- the first 3 months are when you feel the most intensity...

 

Maybe for you, not for me. I don't feel much for girls when I first get with them, I only feel attraction and lust. No romance nor love, that comes later. Lust can be kept at bay by regular tommy tanks in the bathtub.