uber late and brought her friend on 'date'?..or did she not consider it a date?

[Mydish1]

I don't know how clear is clear that I wanted to go out with her and take her to the museum. I'm pretty certain I was clear it would be me and her.

 

I asked this girl out to go to the museum with me and at X time. I waited quite a long time for her and she didn't show up so I left. her phone is dead as she had told me which is proven true, so calling wouldn't make a difference..but she has my #. Anyway when I got back home, I got a voicemail from her. Saying the obvious, she made it there and apologized about being 1 hour late...and on top of that she said she was with her friend and would go to the museum hoping to see me there.

 

What do you guys think about the situation?

[Cherry Blossom 35]

It is incredibly rude to be an hour late. I don't believe that her phone is dead, sounds like an excuse.

 

Forget about her.

[mortensorchid]

Totally rude. She should have been prepped and ready in case of disaster. Move on.

[D-Lish]

An hour late??

She brings a friend? Not cool... not someone you should call again.

 

I'm sorry to be harsh- but it does not sound as if she is interested.

She either didn't see it as a date...or she's a jerk. Either way- it's best to move on.

[Jilly Bean]

Whatta douche!

 

Move on, hon. No one needs that garbage.

 

FWIW, I wait 15 minutes max for anyone. If they haven't called to say they are going to be late, I'm gone in 15.

[gfto]

I waited quite a long time for her

As another poster said, 15 minutes, tops. I hope you haven't returned her voicemail.

[Balthazar]

Not interested and impolite.

Next!

[JoeNewbie]

I know of a couple girls who are very well intended - and are usually late everywhere they go. They mean no disrespect but that's just the way they are. That being said, they also have a lot of psychological issues.

 

I think the big red flag is that she brought her girlfriend along.

 

Unless you want to be her pal, I'd move to the next candidate.

[Cherry Blossom 35]

I know of a couple girls who are very well intended - and are usually late everywhere they go. They mean no disrespect but that's just the way they are. That being said, they also have a lot of psychological issues.

 

I think the big red flag is that she brought her girlfriend along.

 

Unless you want to be her pal, I'd move to the next candidate.

 

 

Sorry, but being habitually late is disrespectful. Showing up an hour late without so much as a phone call is extremely disrespectful.

[Mydish1]

Yeah..Wasted my time and all..she had given no reason to being late either. Even a situation like that with a friend would still not be cool either.