djhall Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 I posted much the same in a similar thread earlier, but if it isn't a medial issue, your physical appearance, a dissatisfaction with the way he sees you performing in the relationship, or a dissatisfaction with himself that makes his feel non-sexy/non-sexual, it is also possible, though I would check out all those others first, that he has psychological issues regarding sex. Is it possible he is gay/bisexual, feels trapped when in a relationship, has extreme sexual fetishes he is unwilling to share with you, was taught to believe sex is "dirty", or something similar? I suspect more people have these kinds of sexual isses they don't confide to their spouse than most people believe... I suspect that Larry Craig trolling airport restrooms for gay sex, and the senator sucking the toes of a prostitute in a hotel room, the politician who paid a dominatrix lots of money to humiliate and make fun of him for sexual excitement, while the wives have no clue the husband is into this stuff, is really not as unusual as we think. I also think most of these men would rather see their wife leave because the sex was non-existent than risk telling her about what they really like about sex.
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