timmay Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 ok so i said in a different thread that i broke up with my ex after about 6 years and we have been boken up for about 6 months. I finially went NC about 2 months ago and then i get a call from my ex's best friends saying me and my buddie should go hand out with them at a club. So make a long story short my ex invites us back to her house and we hook up. The next day she goes out on the boat with me and my family with her friend and mine and things were fine. She left acting weird to the next day i text her like call me when u get a chance. So she calls and i said that having sex was a mistake but i want to be friends. She then says we cant be friends but doesnt give any answer why its just because ( lame lame lame, there is an answer but she just wont tell me no clue why or what it is) so befor this went down i added her back as one of my friends on myspace. So i end the convo on the phone and just say i will ttyl. I text her the next day saying something about our dog. She texts me back so then i text her again asking her if she will take the dog for the weekend but i dont get any response. I texted her again the next day but she still wont answer. SO i look at my myspace and she added me as a friend..... that one made me a lil confused cause why if she says she donest wanna be my friend add me as one on myspace? she just confuses me..... I have my own reasons why i think she does this kind of stuff im just courious what others think. if u have any advice all is welcomed and appreciated
CaliGuy Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 She wanted a hook up and you were available. Sounds like you got used. Think "breadcrumbs/tablescraps" That is what she gave you and you took them. For someone else to respect you, you first have to respect yourself.
Lishy Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 She likes the attention and she likes the fact that she can have you back at the click of a finger. She added you to myspace so she can watch you from a distance. I would say she still likes you as a person but does not want the romance anymore. She confuses you for one reason ... because she can!!!!!!! She takes what she wants, when she wants it and walks away with no concience as she has promised nothing! Delete her from Myspace and stay away until you are over her
tommiw Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 She likes the attention and she likes the fact that she can have you back at the click of a finger. She added you to myspace so she can watch you from a distance. I would say she still likes you as a person but does not want the romance anymore. She confuses you for one reason ... because she can!!!!!!! She takes what she wants, when she wants it and walks away with no concience as she has promised nothing! Delete her from Myspace and stay away until you are over her This goes well with my case too
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