vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Jersey... Who is to say who is using who? Lets say a very attractive man wants to have sex with a woman he would not go in public with. She enables this by having sex. Secondly, she gets the opportunity to have sex with someone way out of her league. It's not so bad for her.
jadedone Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Errrr....what one of us doesn't have issues. If you think that's something that offends me you missed your mark. If I believed what you guys said was true about men, I'd have no faith in men what so ever. Maybe that's your goal. I don't know. Maybe you like it better when women have low expectations of men, that way you can blame everything on your hormones and not man up and behave how a real man should. If you are wondering who a real man is look up Paul Newman. I actually think that is what bothers me about some of you. As a chick, I could pander to every little emotion I have but I try to be better then that. I try to treat men and women better then that. You seem to want to justify and excuse treating others like they are less then human being because your are a man. It's just not right and it doesn't really infuse the kind of thinking that makes women respect you. A few of you clearly have no respect for women and have no desire to treat them like human beings. We all get men like sex and there is nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all. When it becomes messed up is when you use other people, or hurt them, or degrade them for your own benefit. Sleeping with a girl you wouldn't take out in public is degrading another human being because you are using them for your own means. And justifing that type of behavior because you like sex, is plain wrong and weak. You can say that is how all men are, but luckily I know some men that would never dream of treating a woman how you suggest most men treat women. I wish you had more respect for women in general. You act as if the girl isn't getting any enjoyment out of the sex. Like others have said. The lucky women got laid by a guy out of their league. Paul Newman is a horrible example, I guarantee he has had one nighters with tons of women he would not normally want to be seen with. I also guarnatee it's a night they will remember and brag about for their entire lives.
CaliGuy Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Would you say that most men would sleep with any woman, even if he was not attracted to her? Yes. Have you ever done this? Not proud of it, but yes. Even if you are not a man who would do that, do you know people who would? I don't know any men that would not...
Shygirl15 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Yes. Not proud of it, but yes. I don't know any men that would not... Very honest, very cute.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 You act as if the girl isn't getting any enjoyment out of the sex. Like others have said. The lucky women got laid by a guy out of their league. If a man is using a woman for sex that he is embarressed to be with in public, he isn't the bigger better deal in that situation. He is a user, a coward and a weak example of a man. Simple fact. Paul Newman is a horrible example, I guarantee he has had one nighters with tons of women he would not normally want to be seen with. I also guarnatee it's a night they will remember and brag about for their entire lives. The only reason you think Paul Newman is a horrible example is because he is actually what a real man is about. I'm sorry that you have such a low opinion of any man, not just yourself and your friends here. That's really too bad that you don't expect too much from yourself. But that will be your own issue in life. Not mine.
vonerik012 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 LOL How do you know what Paul Newman does in his personal life? Because he plays interesting roles in the movies, he is some perfect man? Jersey, if a woman does not ask to go on a date, and just wants you to come over for sex, how are you using her? She wants to have sex too. Many women like sex. She probably rejects men that are actually in her league that want to take her out all the time, because she wants to have sex with more attractive men.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 I'm sure you know all about that Vonerik.
loveinlife Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Hey everyone. I have a question and I am particularly interested in hearing a male perspective on this. Would you say that most men would sleep with any woman, even if he was not attracted to her? Have you ever done this? Even if you are not a man who would do that, do you know people who would? not all, it takes attraction for me to sleep with someone. I would have to know them in order to have sex with a girl. just my 2cents.
Shygirl15 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 lol,keep it up,maybe he'll decide to throw his hotdog up your hallway Well, I know if I was the one who said that, people would be reporting violation by now..
soserious1 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Well, I know if I was the one who said that, people would be reporting violation by now.. hey I'm just exercising that "sense of humor" you've admoinished us old gals to develop more than once. And I don't always agree with you but I for one would certainly never report you for anything you said.
Shygirl15 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 hey I'm just exercising that "sense of humor" you've admoinished us old gals to develop more than once. Duh. You guys are so bitter, you really scare me now. Can't believe we're still carrying on and on, on same ol' old gals conversation . Is this how you live in real life? You must be one very unhappy old gal..
nopainnogain Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 . Can't believe we're still carrying on and on, on same ol' old gals conversation . than dont post lol
soserious1 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Duh. You guys are so bitter, you really scare me now. Can't believe we're still carrying on and on, on same ol' old gals conversation . Is this how you live in real life? You must be one very unhappy old gal.. Actually I'm in the process of losing 200 pounds of excessive weight, I expect to be feeling MUCH better with each passing day
soserious1 Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 Well, I know if I was the one who said that, people would be reporting violation by now.. and it was reported and I've been fully slapped for it. I apologise shygirl.
rod_in_gtown Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 I have on occassion slept with a woman who I have know I wanted no more than just have fun. This was usually because I was not entirely into her but there was always a slight level of attraction. If ever so small. Nowadays I just prefer to play solo rather than getting in the sack with someone I have no intentions of dating.
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