amymarieca Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Hey everyone. I have a question and I am particularly interested in hearing a male perspective on this. Would you say that most men would sleep with any woman, even if he was not attracted to her? Have you ever done this? Even if you are not a man who would do that, do you know people who would?
JoeNewbie Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Amongst all of my male friends, I can think of only 1 or 2 who would sleep with a woman they find unattractive. That being said, attraction can be defined in many ways so your question is actually a bit trickier than it may seem.
stoopid_guy Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Not attracted to her in what way? You have to be at least a bit attracted to her. One thing about men though, being attracted to her sexually does not mean you are attracted to her in any other way, especially for younger guys. At some point, most guys will realize that women who have nothing but sexual appeal are more trouble than they're worth, but that takes some experience.
brotherbe1985 Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Yeah I`ve done it a few times. It has its different reasons. Sometimes you go so long with out sex and so if its available you take it. Sometimes you just get lonely and the company of another helps. I know it sounds bad but I make my intentions perfectly clear that it`s only going to be a physical thing. Does this help??
nopainnogain Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Nah, the chick needs to give me a boner.therefor they need to be attractive.
Green Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 I would have to be physicaly attracted. But I could sleep with a girl I thought was hot but was unattracted to her in every other way... in fact I could sleep with a hot girl I hated
The Collector Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 I'm not sure about the exact figures but I'd say there were only a few men that would sleep with anything. The desperate or very drunk ones.
vonerik012 Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Men can find several different types of women attractive enough to have sex with. Trust me. This does not mean they are attractive enough to date. Of course we all have different perspectives, and different cut off points.
jadedone Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 There are some that I thought were decent enough looking to have sex with, but didn't want to be seen in public with. For example: I meet a girl online. She has a cute face, but only describes her body as "average" She turns out to be a little chubby. I'm not going to want to a relationship with the girl, but I'll have sex with her. It's not that I lie to these girls to sleep with them, they just seem to be the ones that move faster physically.
fral945 Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Would you say that most men would sleep with any woman, even if he was not attracted to her? Have you ever done this? Even if you are not a man who would do that, do you know people who would? No, I wouldn't say any woman. He has to be attracted to something about her. Usually that means a specific body part (face, boobs, butt, etc.) or maybe just the shape of her body. If I look at a woman and see nothing that physically arouses me then I couldn't do it. I've slept with a girl that I didn't find all that attractive (she was fat), but she had a pretty face. Frankly, she was willing and available when others weren't. She is the type of girl most men might sleep with if they're horny and lonely but wouldn't go out with in public or tell their friends about. Women need to have at least one physical quality (or more) to arouse a man. Otherwise, it physically won't work. Although, I have to admit, when I go long periods without any sex or masturbation, my standards get lower and lower. If I was horny enough, I think just about any woman would do.
vonerik012 Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Handsome available men EVEN PAY ugly women for sex... Example.. Hugh grant Divine Brown. Do you think he would marry her?
fral945 Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Handsome available men EVEN PAY ugly women for sex... Example.. Hugh grant Divine Brown. Do you think he would marry her? Great point. I think it shows just how much men crave sexual variety. He had Elizabeth Hurley at home and he still went out and had sex with a hooker.
vonerik012 Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Exactly... Now who could imagine Elizabeth Hurley paying a complete stranger, poor, possibly disease infested, ugly, drug addict off the street to have sex.. Thats the difference between how men and women view sex.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Hey everyone. I have a question and I am particularly interested in hearing a male perspective on this. Would you say that most men would sleep with any woman, even if he was not attracted to her? Have you ever done this? Even if you are not a man who would do that, do you know people who would? I think that if you listen to all the guys here, you are going to want to hang yourself because the way they describe men, makes it seem like women are just about nothing to them. So I will offer my comments because I even find the guys here depressing. I would say that most men need to find something attractive about the woman. If he wants to have sex with her, there has to be something there. If a man has sex with anything, whether he finds her attractive or not, he can't be a man that thinks much of himself. As someone else brought up, Hugh Grant. Its really hard to know what is truly going on with someone personally. You don't know what state they are in when they do something. I do know, sexy men getting ugly whores to give them sex isn't as nearly as common as some would like you to believe. Despite his huge lumps of money and being with someone gorgeous, he had to be in a pretty low spot to do what he did. Look at Owen wilson, dude try to commit sucide despite being hot, and having alot of hot ladies. So no, I don't think men just sleep with anything. If a man does, you have to wonder how he feels about himself. Not all men are confident in themselves and use sex with anyone as validation.
vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 So no, I don't think men just sleep with anything. If a man does, you have to wonder how he feels about himself. Not all men are confident in themselves and use sex with anyone as validation. Oh boy, here we go... A woman telling men how they should feel about sex, lol..Then trying to shame them for being human. Men make a million sperm a day for a reason. To spread their seed. That is whom we are. many men sleep with women they would not be seen in public with, but do find something attractive about them. it's not about validation, it is an urge we have from birth.
fral945 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Oh boy, here we go... A woman telling men how they should feel about sex, lol..Then trying to shame them for being human. Don't be silly, vonerik. She knows how we think better than we men know how we think.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Ummm, I never told men how they should feel about sex. I understand that your position on women is that we are insignificant human beings but don't put words into my mouth that weren't there.
vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Jersey, are you friends with Hugh grant? You know he must have been feeling bad to get that prostitute, lol. Yeah thats why men get hookers.. Then you insinuated not all men are confident, and use sex as validation.. What? lol Or "He cant be a man that thinks much of himself" Sorry, men like sex. They often times sleep with women they do not want to be seen in public with. Prostitution is also thriving in every country in the world. You have no clue as to hw men feel and think, sorry. They aren't carrying eggs. They think differently.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Jersey, are you friends with Hugh grant? You know he must have been feeling bad to get that prostitute, lol. Yeah thats why men get hookers.. I think that he could very well have been in a low spot in his life. You aren't friends with Hugh Grant anymore then I am. I'm sorry but no man of any self respect acts the way he did. You want to present this ideal that men are trouble free souls with no issues as to why they do the things they do. People are complicated..any pop-pychology class will teach you that. Perhaps the men I know are just higher quality. Not all men think or are like you Vonerik..thank god for the female population.
vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Jersey, LOL Like you would have any clue of what the men you know do sexually. I was just illustrating the obvious differences between men and women. So when world famous beautiful actresses are in a low spot, they find poor, ugly, disease infested, complete stranger, drug addicts to give 50 dollars to have sex? Do you really think that was his first time, and he just happened to get caught? Could have been his 1000th time. men don't tell women what they do sexually. Often times they don't even tell their friends because they are embarrassed about the woman they slept with. You would be far more successful if you understood men, instead of trying to be in denial about how they are.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 I would safely bet I am more successful with men then you are with women. So when world famous beautiful actresses are in a low spot, they find poor, ugly, disease infested, complete stranger, drug addicts to give 50 dollars to have sex? Not at all. I never said women and men were different. I just said the reasons why people do things can be vast as to cover the truthbehind their actions. NOt all men respect themselves. Even men who get lots of sex. And a man that sleeps with an ugly hooker when he could have any woman inbetween Elizabeth hurly and hookerville, has to be in a low spot. Do you really think that was his first time, and he just happened to get caught? Could have been his 1000th time. Absolutetly...and he could have been in a low spot all those years. Maybe your experience with men is they pray on any woman regardless of any factors, but that isn't my experience with men. But now I see that you have as little faith in men as yo udo in women.
vonerik012 Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 It's not about having "faith". It's about what is. I don't think any less of men for having sex, lol. That is a rather young and inexperienced attitude to have.
Balthazar Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 LOL Jersey's got some issues.... But I'd have to agree with this: I'd have to say that men have a rating scale from 0 to 1. 0 is "She's so ugly/fat/old that I wouldn't get a hardon if I saw her naked" whereas 1 is "She's attractive enough I would get a hardon if I saw her naked." If you're a 0 to a guy, you're SOL. If you're a 1, then he'd do ya if he's able. The 0 and 1 scale sounds just right.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 LOL Jersey's got some issues.... Errrr....what one of us doesn't have issues. If you think that's something that offends me you missed your mark. If I believed what you guys said was true about men, I'd have no faith in men what so ever. Maybe that's your goal. I don't know. Maybe you like it better when women have low expectations of men, that way you can blame everything on your hormones and not man up and behave how a real man should. If you are wondering who a real man is look up Paul Newman. I actually think that is what bothers me about some of you. As a chick, I could pander to every little emotion I have but I try to be better then that. I try to treat men and women better then that. You seem to want to justify and excuse treating others like they are less then human being because your are a man. It's just not right and it doesn't really infuse the kind of thinking that makes women respect you. A few of you clearly have no respect for women and have no desire to treat them like human beings. We all get men like sex and there is nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all. When it becomes messed up is when you use other people, or hurt them, or degrade them for your own benefit. Sleeping with a girl you wouldn't take out in public is degrading another human being because you are using them for your own means. And justifing that type of behavior because you like sex, is plain wrong and weak. You can say that is how all men are, but luckily I know some men that would never dream of treating a woman how you suggest most men treat women. I wish you had more respect for women in general.
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