noo-vah Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Hi guys!!! It's so nice I found this forum... Just want to seek some advice... I met a guy a month ago in a catholic dating site. It's been only a month but a lot of things had happened already. I met his family and he met mine also. I really like him as a person, and he's really the right guy material. But I have this problem... he's a bit clingy. Many times in a day, for one month, he never fails to ask how am I, and he texts me always everything that he does, when he meets his friends, when he jogs with his dad, when he has a bonding with his bro, all his errands and everything... And he always ask me how's my day and ask about my activities for the whole day... I don't know, he's really the right guy, I love everything about him and I don't want to even lose him. But it's tiring, all his texts and everything. It's consuming me emotionally... what should I do? Please help... thanks...
xpaperxcutx Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Be honest with him and tell him that you do need a bit of personal space once in a while. Are you the first girl he's been with?
backspacectrl Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 how can you love everything about him, if you dont even like what hes doing? how can he be right? the right person will (in your eyes) be perfect for you [not saying you wont see there faults but they will be amazing in your eyes everything they do and say will just make you warm and fuzza inside]
lonelyandfrustrated Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 One month is awfully quick to be tired of hearing from someone. Shouldn't you be in the ga-ga, "Ooh, look, he's thinking about me again!!!" *swoon* stage still? Doesn't that tell you something?
You'reasian Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Hi guys!!! It's so nice I found this forum... Just want to seek some advice... I met a guy a month ago in a catholic dating site. It's been only a month but a lot of things had happened already. I met his family and he met mine also. I really like him as a person, and he's really the right guy material. Congratulations! But I have this problem... he's a bit clingy. Many times in a day, for one month, he never fails to ask how am I, and he texts me always everything that he does, when he meets his friends, when he jogs with his dad, when he has a bonding with his bro, all his errands and everything... And he always ask me how's my day and ask about my activities for the whole day... I don't know, he's really the right guy, I love everything about him and I don't want to even lose him. But it's tiring, all his texts and everything. It's consuming me emotionally... what should I do? Please help... thanks... Do you encourage this behavior? If not, simply state that you need some space and reinforce that you still love him.
yongyong Posted August 29, 2008 Posted August 29, 2008 I bet if he changes his lifestyle (going out with friends all the time, talk to female friends, call you only when he has to, don't bother you when you go out with friends) you would be crying and ask if he really loves you
You'reasian Posted August 29, 2008 Posted August 29, 2008 I bet if he changes his lifestyle (going out with friends all the time, talk to female friends, call you only when he has to, don't bother you when you go out with friends) you would be crying and ask if he really loves you Sad but maybe true, huh.
yongyong Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Look you are having happy problem. It's not like he is abusive, addicted to something, has bad tempur, came from bad family, has no future things like that he just gives you too much attention and you just take it for granted. you can easily fix this by communicating with him.
Recommended Posts