mou Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Have re-established contact with a guy I've been in love with for years who I met some years ago when he was a tourist in my country. We have been emailing each other for about 4 months now. I sometimes have seen subtle flirtation in his attempts to show off regarding income etc but generally he is not the kind of person to use any mushy language or outright show affection. Also he is not very experienced with writing emails so I consider he is doing very well in regards to the volume and quality of the emails. Friendly, reasonably chatty emails (although I always have more to say than he does). From what I know of him he considers typical lovey-dovey behaviour to be irrational. He has, however, managed to reveal deep personal feelings about past relationships. I have done the same, but it feels natural to confide in him, and I guess it felt good to confide in me. In the past in person he has told me he finds me physically very attractive etc etc. So from his point of view I would assume he is in contact with someone he finds physically attractive, but is hampered by the distance. I am curious as to what people in long distance relationships (not that I am necessarily in one, it may be just a friendship afterall) have to say about the type of emails they have received from guys who may be aren't into open displays of affection. Have you been able to spot indicators they are into you?
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