dreamy1945 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 If you get a phone call or run into your ex what is the best way to handle it? Act like you are fine? What?
TrustInYourself Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Joke, laugh, talk freely. Be open, positive, confident, and happy. Even if you have to fake it.
saams Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 nah dont fake it.. nothing wrong with being hurt or having a bad day.. personally i think i'd just avoid them. and if i really had to talk to em then i'd just keep it short and not talk about any feelings and such.
sultry33 Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 just be yourself;) some say fake it till you make it but normally if you are that deep with someone they will know you no matter how you try hide it
xxxheartbrokenxxx Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Hi Dreamy How are things with you now? Have you heard anything from MM? For me its been over 5 weeks since my MM just abandoned me with no explanation. We discussed on a previous thread that your MM did the same thing to you at the same time it happened to me. Im wondering if mine will EVER call. The longer he leaves it the more unlikely? Im still feeling really depressed about my situation - how are you coping?
Author dreamy1945 Posted September 4, 2008 Author Posted September 4, 2008 I'm still wondering the same thing. He has been driving past by house and also is having someone call my phone and ask for him. I just don't get it! I have my good and bad days. The worst is I miss my best friend to talk too. We actually talked everyday for hours on end. It's so hard.
BCCA Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I'm still wondering the same thing. He has been driving past by house and also is having someone call my phone and ask for him. I just don't get it! I have my good and bad days. The worst is I miss my best friend to talk too. We actually talked everyday for hours on end. It's so hard. Usually, when youre with some one for a long time, they become your best friend. In one swoop, you lose your love and your best friend. Everyone has up days/down days. I always try to talk to some one about how Im feeling when I'm depressed. Usually, just venting helps a lot. I'm in the same boat, thinking to myself "is she EVER going to call"? And then I realize if she did, I wouldnt answer anyway...so what does it matter. I think them not calling is better, though.
sedgwick Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 I saw an ex on the street recently, a guy I hadn't seen for several years. He was kind of an ass during the breakup so I quit talking to him. When he saw me, he stopped and said my name and I just kept walking. Threw an, "Oh, hi," over my shoulder. He stood there looking really snubbed and said, "Hi," and kept walking. Heh.
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