4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Alright ladies and gentleman, I honestly didn't know where to post this so I'm putting it in the general but I had a co-worker of mine (female), come up to me all mad and just smack me on my arm. I asked her what that was for and she asked me the famous question, "Why are men such horndogs?!?" From the tone of her voice, I figured something had happened to her that brought forth this question. I sat there and simply explained to her my belief on this and she seriously couldn't say anything back to me. She told me, "Wow, well then screw nature!" After I explained to her what I think the deal is. Now, sitting here bored at work, I figured I would share it with you all and see what you guys think. It's simple and short. Why men are such horn dogs and are constantly thinking about sex? Now, I don't want this to raise a religious argument about anything because I'm religious myself to an extent but I'm taking the scientific approach to this so please, no flaming and/or unnecessary comments that will spark an argument based on religious beliefs. Thanks! I think logically all the time and make rational decisions based on logic. When she had brought this to my attention, it dawned on me that we as humans, are put on this planet for whatever reason there may be. Regardless of the fact, it is programmed in our nature to want to reproduce and multiply to become the dominant race, which we have. Now, this makes much more sense when you think about ever since mankind first took a step on land. Fast forward throughout evolution and now you have this immensely evolved species that is advanced, sophisticated, and aware of it's own habitat. The problem is that we've forgotten about the fact that we're built to multiply, utilize the resources until there is no more, and move on. Since we've become so overly populated and advanced with a lot of stuff to keep us entertained and occupied, we've forgotten about the fact that we're put on this planet to reproduce; therefore, we walk around with this urge to want to hook up with women, completely oblivious to the fact that we're naturally just made that way. And as for women, just please try and understand, hehe! Anyways, this isn't no noble prize discovery or theory, just my perspective as to why guys are horn dogs. IT'S NOT OUR FAULT HEHE
Yamaha Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I think your theory is full of sheeeetttttt.......
Green Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I don't think men are such horndogs and I would have reported this arm slapping "why are all men such horndogs" co-worker to HR. How dare she, you could have also invited her into the storage closet unzipped your pants and said "they just are, now suck me beautiful"
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Hahah well she asked it in a sarcastic way but I gave her a very serious response loll that's what boredom at work does to you!
Green Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 A serious response to that would be "wtf is a horndog?" or spotting the fact she was asking a rhetorical question and then answering her question with another rhetorical question "why are women so insane?"
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Lol maybe I oughta go ask her that!
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Part of using the "scientific method" is to look at what's out there first. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/men-like-casual-sex-more-than-women-ndash-scientific-fact-854323.html
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Good find! What I posted came all from my head because it's the most logical explanation as to why we have such a drive to want to have sex. It makes perfect sense as well. I'm sure if you do your research online, you'll find multiple answers but this to me just makes more sense than anything else!
The Collector Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Men are such horndogs because women are so damned cute. Oh, and women are horndogs too, they just pretend otherwise.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 See, the city where I live in, a lot of the women are are stuck-up, materialistic, not willing to give you their time of day unless you're willing to buy them something or if you're some model looking guy that they can date just because they want to make their friends jealous that they're with some "hot" guy.
nopainnogain Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I had a co-worker of mine (female), come up to me all mad and just smack me on my arm. I asked her what that was for and she asked me the famous question, "Why are men such horndogs?!?" Cause love ain't nothin but 2 people feelin sorry for each other then hittin divorce court to pay child support to your baby's mother Here comes the sheriff knockin at my front door with a warrant for my arrest cause I refuse to pay a hoe lol
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Cause love ain't nothin but 2 people feelin sorry for each other then hittin divorce court to pay child support to your baby's mother Here comes the sheriff knockin at my front door with a warrant for my arrest cause I refuse to pay a hoe lol ROFL!! Well what had happened with her is that she fell for some guy that was extremely nice to her but only to get in bed with her. Well, he got his way and basically told her to leave him alone and now she's all bummed about it. This is why I say to take it extremely slow in the beginning. You'll find out if a guy is in it for sex or if he actually likes you. Although, some guys are EXTREMELY patient and will wait months and act as if they're interested just to get them into bed; amazing world we live in.
Green Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 ROFL!! Well what had happened with her is that she fell for some guy that was extremely nice to her but only to get in bed with her. Well, he got his way and basically told her to leave him alone and now she's all bummed about it. This is why I say to take it extremely slow in the beginning. You'll find out if a guy is in it for sex or if he actually likes you. Although, some guys are EXTREMELY patient and will wait months and act as if they're interested just to get them into bed; amazing world we live in. I'd actualy go as far as to marry a woman... have sex with her... and then run off to join the Georgian army
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Somewhere out there, there is a woman with a tranquilizer and a butterfly net looking for you!
Green Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Somewhere out there, there is a woman with a tranquilizer and a butterfly net looking for you! So I know its only a matter of time untill I get asked the question, or atleast have to be subjected to overhearing the qustion or some form of the question "why are men such horndogs?" so what is the concesnsus on the response that should be given. I seriously think the right response is to either pertend to be disgusted by the remark or fire back with a "why are women so crazy it cant just be pms"
Phateless Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Men are horndogs because women have all the sexual power. They're the ones who say no and we're the ones who are hoping she'll say yes. Because we never know when we'll have access to it, we want it all the time. Women know all they have to do is ask and we'll give it to them. Not fair. Guys, turn down your girlfriends for a week straight every time she tries to initiate and watch what happens. You think WE get frustrated from lack of sex? Just wait and see what happens when you flip the situation.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 [rant]Why must sex be about power and competition? If people would step down from this, maybe they would be copulating more![/end rant] There's nothing wrong with being a high-drive person but if you treat your SO or dates with a lack of respect, it ain't gonna' happen unless you solely select women with low self-esteem.
Phateless Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 [rant]Why must sex be about power and competition? If people would step down from this, maybe they would be copulating more![/end rant] There's nothing wrong with being a high-drive person but if you treat your SO or dates with a lack of respect, it ain't gonna' happen unless you solely select women with low self-esteem. 'morning TBF! that's not what I was getting at. Because I want it more than my gf, it sets up the dynamic of me chasing with her running. All she has to do is say ok while I have to force myself to back off if I can tell she's not in the mood. It never goes the other way and it's frustrating and sometimes humiliating, even emasculating at times. I feel at times like I'm thinking, "PLEASE, can we have sex?" and it makes me feel terrible inside. If she's not in the mood I try to be respectful and I go into the bathroom and I take care of it myself so that I can sleep. The worst part is, we have sex almost every day and it's amazing, and it's still not enough for me. Being sexually rejected by the person you love hurts a lot, even if it's only two or three days in a row. I don't think most women have any idea what this feels like.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 'morning TBF! that's not what I was getting at. Because I want it more than my gf, it sets up the dynamic of me chasing with her running. All she has to do is say ok while I have to force myself to back off if I can tell she's not in the mood. It never goes the other way and it's frustrating and sometimes humiliating, even emasculating at times. I feel at times like I'm thinking, "PLEASE, can we have sex?" and it makes me feel terrible inside. If she's not in the mood I try to be respectful and I go into the bathroom and I take care of it myself so that I can sleep. The worst part is, we have sex almost every day and it's amazing, and it's still not enough for me. Being sexually rejected by the person you love hurts a lot, even if it's only two or three days in a row. I don't think most women have any idea what this feels like. G'morning Phateless! Yes, this is a different perspective. I can understand why that would feel awful. Perhaps you need someone who has a higher drive?
Brady_to_Moss Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Girls think about sex more than i do.....
2sunny Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 why are men horndogs? because they are! some women are too! they just hide it better. at least she's realizing a fact in life. and yes, for the most part - women do hold the power. i don't agree with game playing and power struggles in this area though. that's just mean, but a given for a lot of women. the power of the pu$$y!
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 24, 2008 Author Posted August 24, 2008 Well see, what my last ex, she wanted to have sex with me, every single day, multiple times a day. I was okay with this in the beginning of our relationship because prior to getting with her, I went on like a 6 month dry spell so it was nice to get it all out of my system; however, after a year into it, it kinda got annoying. I mean, once a day is fine but there were times when I was just simply tired, sex wasn't on my mind, I had to sleep and get up early for work, and she wanted to do it but I was there for her. Many nights we just did it and had her finish up, not me. Then it would be like in the morning when I would wake up for work, she'd wanna do it before work too. I'm not a morning person. Don't get me wrong, if it's Saturday or Sunday, I don't mind waking up at 8 in the morning for a quickie and then going back to sleep but on a workday, just leave me alone lol. I do agree that women hold the power with a simple "yes" or "no"; but I have also met women like my ex who just need it all the time. I almost feel that if I'm not there for her, she'll go to somebody else...ughhh! very degradingg!!
annieo Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 'morning TBF! : The worst part is, we have sex almost every day and it's amazing, and it's still not enough for me. Whoa, that made me stop and think. And ask my husband, if we had sex everyday, would he still jerk off in the shower in the morning? His reply, "If we had sex every day, I'd start writing like Shakespeare." God, he makes me laugh! Maybe the sex once a day thing is now on the menu
Jersey Shortie Posted August 25, 2008 Posted August 25, 2008 The problem is that we've forgotten about the fact that we're built to multiply, utilize the resources until there is no more, and move on. Since we've become so overly populated and advanced with a lot of stuff to keep us entertained and occupied, we've forgotten about the fact that we're put on this planet to reproduce; therefore, we walk around with this urge to want to hook up with women, completely oblivious to the fact that we're naturally just made that way. And as for women, just please try and understand, hehe! Anyways, this isn't no noble prize discovery or theory, just my perspective as to why guys are horn dogs. IT'S NOT OUR FAULT HEHE Actually it is your fault. As a human being, you have choices. You are not neither should you be a slave to your hormones anymore then women are or should be. Men dislike it when women lack self control emotionally just as much as women dislike when men lack self control emotionally. I don't think the issue for women is that men like sex and get horny easier. I think it's the lack of accountiblity and responsibility that men take when it comes to their hormones. Your: "It's not our fault hehe" comment speaks volumes. You don't want to have to be responsible for yourself, your actions or choices. That isn't an attractive quality in either sex. To take your own words: It's not our fault we want our men to want to use a little self control out of respect for us. See, the city where I live in, a lot of the women are are stuck-up, materialistic, not willing to give you their time of day unless you're willing to buy them something or if you're some model looking guy that they can date just because they want to make their friends jealous that they're with some "hot" guy. Hey friend, it's "not our fault". We are driven by the urge to want a mate that can provide for us. It isn't materialism, it's bioloigy..so it's not our fault.... You see the bs in that statement don't you? Not so attractive is it when it's you being used or treated like less for materalism. But women can just as easily biologically rationalize it. What you just described having issue with, is exactly how women can feel when it comes to men and the way men abuse their sexual situations and privilages all at the excuse of being a man.
Author 4dviceJunki3 Posted August 25, 2008 Author Posted August 25, 2008 This is something that I came up with in like less than 5 minutes at work so it was more of a general statement; I haven't done any proofreading or extensive research on this before posting so I will not go against your argument; I do stick behind the fact that everyone has become oblivious to the fact that it is biologically built into us as humans to have this drive. Great argument overall though! =)
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