BF1981 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 So I went out with a girl from highschool last Friday and we had a great time. I am 29 and she is 26. Both divorced but we don't live in the same town. Both live in CA. So I wait to e-mail her until Wednesday and she replies within 5 minutes. I get busy with work and in 30 minutes...another e-mail comes from her basically saying..."What's up. Had a great time. Can you believe xyz that happened that night?" I replied to that e-mail and have not heard back since. We use our work e-mail addresses so the e-mails go to PDAs as well. Needless to say she saw my reply. Is she trying to turn the waiting game on me? Our outing on Friday was very casual but there were some signs there like her touching my leg and my head, her driving me back to me a car...a hug and kiss on the cheek from her. We knew each other before going out so there is some friendly history between us. No relations ever happened. Is she making me wait now? Any ideas?
Green Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 She might be, I wouldn't put to much thought into this. Paranoia will only make you do something lame. It might just be over, you rarely get an explenation if it is. Either way you shouldn't worry it will figure itself out. You could just ask her out again ... and do it by calling
Author BF1981 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 She might be, I wouldn't put to much thought into this. Paranoia will only make you do something lame. It might just be over, you rarely get an explenation if it is. Either way you shouldn't worry it will figure itself out. You could just ask her out again ... and do it by calling I don't see how "it" could be over when we went out once and had a history before that. She basically popped back into my life after 15 years and we started talking. We are both single and live a 2 hours apart. Not sure what can be over if there wasn't anything to begin with. This is lame.
amymarieca Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 All I can say is that when I am really into a guy, I will show interest. That includes answering his calls, emails, and text messages. Maybe she is not interested anymore.
Green Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 I don't see how "it" could be over when we went out once and had a history before that. She basically popped back into my life after 15 years and we started talking. We are both single and live a 2 hours apart. Not sure what can be over if there wasn't anything to begin with. This is lame. you wouldn't know if it was over yet... if this goes on longer then it is... even if its not over... pretty flakey of her
Balthazar Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 As others mentioned, the best course of action is to ask her out again and escalate. Try to program the date in a romantic venue and use more physical contact(don't overdo this). There is a very good chance this woman does not know how you feel about her yet, so make it clear. CHeers,
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