english man Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 from 24yrs old from England my girlfriend < 26yrs old should know better:love: hey been with my girl over 3 months everything was great until her mum had a accident and had to go to hospital, so i let my girlfriend deal with it and gave her a week for space so she could spend time and look after her mum i was supportive and everything..... txting and calling asking if she needed help etc then NEXT thing i no shes booked a holiday to go to cyprus in europe and she had no intention of telling me! we was meant to be going together but because her mum had the accident with her leg she said we would have to go in a couple of months until her mum got better! i was like ok kool! but 2 DAYS, 2 DAYS! after her mum coming out of hospital she just left with her friend who she doesn't really like that much?? who is another female .... i only found out when she was at the airport leaving the country, after i was pestering her that day asking her where she was because she was ignoring my phone calls (hadnt seen her all week because the crisis with the mum) >i think maybe she wanted to runaway from it all she did say her mums accident freaked her out because there was so much blood everywhere when it happened .. plus she told me she was pregnant which i later talk about< finally after a few messages and ignored phone calls i got a message from her saying... baby im at the airport im going to cyprus stay calm il call you and explain everything when i get there!... i was like WOT THE HELL it was a shock to me how disloyal is she? so i txt back and said i am calm but how come you didnt want me to come i thought you was meant to be going with with me?? i said so she replied in txt .. its not that i didnt want you to come it all happened so quick! i didnt even book the flights Gabys boyfriend did dnt worry il call you when i get there baby x so i replied saying i was shocked , ok if you didnt book the flights why are you not picking the phone up and i just wrote along txt saying i thought you was my friend how could you go with her i thought you didnt like her that much bla bla you no nothing tooo harsh! saying i was disapointed she left her mum stuff like that ... didnt get a reply! so i went to her house and spoke to her mum < WELL i didnt know how long she was going for, i needed to find out! her mum had no idea she kept it secret from me, her mum wasnt happy about the whole situation about her leaving. Later that evening it got late so i stayed in my girlfriends room.. and gee what a hard sleep that was!! just before i went to sleep i put some trash in her trash bin AND I FOUND A EMPTY CONDOM BOX IN HER TRASH I WAS SHOCKED AGAIN so i told her mum, her mum told me it must be her friend gabby’s! Because she stayed over before they went, i was like ok... BUT THATS NOT ALL I FOUND IN HER TRASH BIN, i found a ripped up letter she had been writing a sexual fantasy! all rude suggestions just a whole full on steamy love letter saying what she wants to do to this guy sexually, and it was a previous guy she dated before me, but he went to jail! the 1st month me and my girlfriend started dating, and then i found more letters she had been writing to him i only found 2 from him, he was asking for erotic pictures from her, and buy the looks of it she had sent him pictures with the letters she sent him, for some reason she kept all the draft copys which i found the whole time she was out there for 2 weeks i didnt hear from her once , was this her way of dumping me??? i had 1 phone call from her which i missed saying on my voice mail.. JOHN i just spoke to my mum what the **** is going on!! call me back.. her mum obviously told her id been looking around in her room , so she probably wasn't happy , but at the end of the day i still caught her OUT!! i still never heard from her when she came back,i left it a couple of weeks and i gave in and txted her saying i missed her and i forgotten about it all really, and i txtd her the other day saying , wish things never ended the way they did.... wish things were different My friends have told me to dump her , what she has done is worse then cheating in a way!!! my friends told me to ignore her too and I HAVE, but she hasnt bothered to call me or anything she hasnt even told me whats going on with the relationship? Another thing she told me a week before she went on holiday she was PREGNANT tooo!! i was very reasonable about the situation and said i wasnt ready maybe she got angry about that, or maybe she was lying?? She was crying when she told me, she was saying we could get a house together and all this future planned stuff with the baby, and we did love each other very much, why did she turn so cold on me?? but she still hasnt told me whats going on with the pregnancy situation either ???? VERY CRUEL WHAT DO I DOOO?? Her mums accident did freak her out abit she did say, and then the whole pregnancy thing maybe she just wanted to run away from it all??????????? AND IV JUST SEEN PICTURES OF HER KISSING ANOTHER GUY ON THAT HOLIDAY ON HER FRIENDS FACEBOOK PAGE ON THE INTERNET SO NOW I KNOW SHES CHEATED!! AND I THINK THE CONDOMS WERE HERS my friend told me to copy the letters i found and show her mum, and maybe write her a letter saying i dont know why it didnt work out maybe we should get on with our lives, to be honest i just want her to come crawling back if i do the old ignoring trick, which i have done ... its been 2 months and iv spoke to her probably 5 times on the phone jus talking small talk, last week she said she found a pad in her room which i wanted her to find eventually it was just a note with all my feelings on it,saying how bad she was and i knew about the letters shed been writing to this guy, etc so now she knows i know about the letters , i was gonna keep it hidden from her, i did ask her to think about meeting when she said about the pad on the phone she sounded a bit upset or quiet, i asked if she missed me she said nooo , LOL, and keeps saying iv gone on like a dickhead?? but maybe she was annoyed with the pad she found, i would just like to see her one last time and ask why she done all this? and the letters etc, then walk away maybe and see if she comes back im not really sure what i want at the moment im kinder getting used to girls cheating on me,i think im too nice to them i dont no i just pick the wrong ones! But she was the love of my life and iv been doing the NC and maybe call once a week to see how she is , i dnt want her move on and i still love her, and it is litrally a 10 minute small talk if i do ring her , its never good to keep talking about the problems you’ve gone through, sometimes shes happy on the phone sometime shes funny with me get the impression she maybe misses me, it was just the note book she found last week she said it was abit weird , havnt spoke to her all week iv been too busy SERIOUSLY READ UP ABOUT STAR SIGNS IT ALL MADE SENSE ABOUT THIS SCORPIO WOMAN , PLEASE GET BACK TO ME SORRY TO GO ON , THANKS ENGLISH MAN AKA JOHN
nowhereman82 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Drop it like a bad habit, why would you want someone that cheated on you within 3 months? You also shouldn't be sharing these personal things with her mother in my opinion.
Author english man Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 she didnt really cheat it was jus a few playful kisses she said, was going to tel her mum, because her mum thinks the world of her i was gonna show her what shes really like, i still have these letters i found i still love her tho
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