critter909 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Hi everyone! I just wanted to tell you that I saw my ex last night. He is miserable. Just like many of you I was having these thoughts that he is so happy, living a wonderful life, not missing anything and I'm the one suffering. Well I was so wrong! His life took an absolute sh*t. It's so bad that I can't even be happy about "the karma" getting him. I'm sure this is true for many of them we just don't get to hear it. I just wanted to put it out there so that everyone who is hurting and having those thoughts has one more person telling them that it's not true, they don't just move on to fairy tale lives. Hang tough, friends! 1
Ingenue Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Call me nutty, but if that's true of my ex, it almost makes me sad. It's not as if I'm saying I'd like my ex to be living it up, bedecked in jewels with two scantily clad women fawning over him as he reclines a la bacchus with grapes and wine in hand. As much as I'm hurt by the break up, he is still a human being and I would never want to see any person, even my ex, experience that suffering that the broken hearted club goes through. Then there's the slightly bitter Ingenue that does derive some relief thinking that my ex hasn't gotten over me so quickly. I'd like to think, however untrue, that I was a seminal part of his life and in some aspects, an unforgettable part.
seminoles84 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I think it upsets me more that they wouldn't ask for help.. I'm so used to always being there for her.. that it would sadden me.
SweetTux Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I actually recently spoke to my ex and I think the grass is greener for her lol. I mean shes not financially well off but she thinks her life is great. Shes meeting more and more people and going out all the time and having a great time. It kind of sucks she was never like that before. I know she liked going out but when I met her she was the type of girl that like staying home too... but now it seems shes always out partying or on dates.. So for my situation it is greener for her and not for me haha... One day it'll be the opposite and i'll be glad it is. =)
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